2006-07-25 00:30:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
ooo girl im in the EXACT situation. im having his baby but i believe the same thing. Okay Do what i do,
don't worry. Trust him. he loves you. Espically enough to being having a child with him. how does he treat his kid with her? how long were they together? the best thing i can tell you is not to worry. he thinks you are beautiful and he wants to be with you NOT HER of he would be with her! sit down and talk to him about it. Did they just break up not to long ago? Tell him how you feel. Tell him that it makes you mad/jealous/scared and make him understand that you will be here for him no matter what and that you love him. good luck
2006-07-25 00:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by PuertoRicanLover 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Id say leave it alone. You're having a baby enjoy it. I cant help sadly, i'm what you would call the 'ex with the kid' my sons dad is married now with a new baby and he still loves me. I think no matter what he always will, u dont chose to have a kid with anyone, but hes with you now and you're having a babay, enjoy it, he'd not be there if he didnt want you.x
2006-07-25 00:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by emma b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldn't you thought of this before getting pregnant, your showing vast amounts of stupidity getting pregnant to someone you don't trust....don't try and say it was an accident, an accident is knocking a cup off the table... it isn't having unprotected sex to get pregnant to try and keep a man that has got to show some responsibility for an existing child that will always be his child your child should not be a replacement for his child from a previous relationship which sounds exactly like what you've tried to do, it will be your own fault if he leaves you with a baby as well because you didn't prevent it yourself from getting pregnant with relatively simple precautions eg the morning after pill....
2006-07-25 00:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key-word is EX. He HAS moved on, even with what your pals think of roughly his thoughts. they are actually not prophets, fortune tellers or soothsayers, so as that they actually does no longer have a clue to a distinctive individual's thoughts. yet because of the fact he's not with you, and you call him ex, i could think of you may prefer to circulate forward, no longer backward. do no longer provide him the delight of waiting and being a doormat for his thoughts. He may well be became off via all of this and it truthfully is unlike maximum adult men to decide on somebody who's doing no longer something with their existence different than mooning over them. It shows no admire for you. So, circulate on. i be attentive to this hurts, and the emotional soreness is unfavourable in the commencing up, till you concentration on different issues. once you replace his thoughts with new ones, he won't look so eye-catching. He could have been the superb ingredient interior the international, or no longer. yet you do no longer choose him listening to which you nonetheless are donning the torch for him. stay lively, concentration on the place you prefer to be on your occupation container in 10 years, and then artwork for that. On that highway to getting to be attentive to your self returned, you will meet a superb guy who will love you in return. yet you would be waiting to grant all of them of you, no longer somebody who's hoping an ex will come decrease back. there's a reason he's an EX...positioned it on paper and examine the unfavourable everytime the constructive thoughts floor. Have a large existence. You deserve it. and quite, this passes. shop notes so which you will tell your grandchildren the type you very almost gave your finished existence to a minimum of one individual, who has moved on. and the type you moved directly to marry their superb grandfather.
2016-11-02 23:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by powelson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he always will have some sort of feelings for his ex cos they have a child together and are bonded in a way because of that,its what my ex told me.If he didn`t want to be with you then he wouldn`t be there would he?Speak to him and let him know how your feeling and hopefully he`ll put your mind at rest,xx
2006-07-27 12:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is exactly what it says on the tin.....AN EX. He is with you, of course he will have feelings for her but just memories not present. Congrats on the coming baby by the way. Andy
2006-07-25 00:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Andy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like your boyfriend is developing a pattern. who's next? you should have married the man before having his baby. the man needs to grow up and make a commitment to you. how sure are you that he isn't going to leave you like his ex?
2006-07-25 01:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by fate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know whay your going though hun my boyfriend has a child by his ex and i had thoughts he might still have feelings for her so i asked him without seeming un trustful of him. Tell him you have thoughts he stills likes here & he will tell you. Don't be worried of scared to ask you need to know.
2006-07-25 01:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you fool around with, let alone get pregnant by, a man who has a child with another woman. The laws will view your children as secondary, as regards child support, estates, etc.
2006-07-25 00:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but things do not look good for you. Has he even offered to marry you. If not, better plan on raising this baby alone. If he didn't stick around for the first one, he's not going to stick around for you either. Good Luck
2006-07-25 01:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋