i work at a daycare center and i want to know, why do women keep having babies and don't take care of them?

Question

they want other people to raise their child. it is our responsibility to take care and if they dont like something they complain. why is that?

Answer 1

i dont . i have 5 . i am a stay at home mom and will be till they are all in school . at that point i will get a part time job , but will still be active in their schooling . [ going to school meeting picking them up , dropping them off etc.] my responsibility is to be side by side with my kids in their journeys that take them to adult hood . i can not do that if i work and "dump" them off at daycare . i gave birth to my kids , not the local day care center, therefore i take care of them .
as far as the complaining abuot things they dont like . people just seem to like to whine and complain about anything and everything .
when i do decide to go back to work it will be at a time where they wont even know mommy works , when they are at school , but i will be there waiting for them to come out of the school each day !!!
i think too many people do rely on others to raise their kids . some people are so stuck in where they want to go in life or what they want to do next to realize they should be concerned about the kids they have created . your children only take their first steps once , and it is a shame alot of parents dont seem to care to be there .

Answer 2

Simply because there are day care centers or nurseries like the one that you work at.
If the facility wasn't there then women would have to stay at home and raise their own children.
I believe strongly that if you are going to bring children into the world you raise them. If you are to lazy to raise your own children don't have them in the first place.
I gave up career to have my child, and I know times get hard and all that jazz and the extra money of both parents working is nice, but I do think that the children benefit from being raised by their parents.
But in this day and age, women have a choice, if you don't like raising other peoples children then I am afraid you are in the wrong career yourself!!

Answer 3

In some circumstances they thought they could have the job and the family, having to use day care probably wasen't their first option. Family events and work events change, not in your plans, now everything is real tight. With that kind of pressure you're going to complain about something. That's giving the woman the benefit of the doubt.

The other end of the spectrum is that they think day care is some sort of right and it should meet their expectations.

A kind of worst case senario is they're using day-care to have their career and not have to deal with the kid, hoping things will turn out somehow because they know they have no parenting skills whatsoever.

Answer 4

I don t understand it either. I went through so much to have my two children and I can t imagine, after experiencing the whole pregnancies, labours, etc how any mother could leave her child and miss out on everything. Someone I know leaves her 8-month-old baby at daycare 3 days a week and her excuse is she is doing it to "develop his social skills". More like developing hers! Some people just shouldn t have children.

Answer 5

Ummm........have you ever thought that they may be working? How can you just assume that they are out running the streets while their children are in daycare? These days it's expensive to live so maybe they have good paying jobs that will take care of daycare and leave them money left over. Don't question it, just do your job.

Answer 6

bc now a days most people cant afford just the father to be working....my husband was in the military for 8 years and went to college and we're just barely making it....working is the last things i want to do bc i dont want my baby in daycare with strangers...especially since i am forced to put him in a child care that doesnt speak english! but i cannot afford to sit at home anymore...i have to make money some how....there's nothing i can really do from home to make any money so i am forced to work

Answer 7

I think because people get themselves into so much debt that they have to have 2 incomes. I have a 7 week old and I am suppose to go back to work in 2 weeks and I'm struggling with the thought. Its not because of money that I'm going back though, I really like my job

Answer 8

Well, welfare reform has made it impossible for a woman to keep having babies and stay home.

Now many keep having babies and get daycare subsidized because they are working.
It is unfortunate. Parents should be paid to stay at home for at least six months with thier babies. Our children are paying for it.

Answer 9

i would have to say it is because in todays world it is hard to make ends meet on a one income family it takes both parents to work to make things work in my life we both have to work full time jobs and we have a 2yr old little girl as for now we are able to work different shifts so either myself or her father are with her so shes not in daycare but with doing that we don't get much family time together me and her father don't get much time to see each other which is very hard but others are not as lucky as we are to be able to work our schedules that way so they have no choice but to put their kids in day care and there is nothing wrong with that either. so get off your high horse and stop judging others you may end up in their situation and you don't want to end up being some one who doesn't practice what they preach and as for them wanting someone else to raise their children i highly doubt that is what they want but some thing they have to do and when it comes to having children they have every right to complain about some thing they don't like going on it is their children and they are the reason you get a paycheck so what are you complaining about sounds like you have some growing up to do.

Answer 10

because they are lazy and selfish. it's as tho women want the daycares and schools to raise their children. hats off to all you daycare workers! you deserve a raise