u want to break off now?????? confused kid
1st get a heart of rock
ok this is kinda different answer
day 1 'V NEED TO TALK'
day 2 start ignoring him and start fights out of nowhere wid him
day 3 continue fighting and getting irritated from everythin he says
day 4 "listen i dont think v can carry things on this way"
day 6 yess skip day 5, ok now say that u cant take him anymore
dont let him know wat else is going on in ur life
u know that im wid u
2006-07-25 00:51:48
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Ettiquette for breaking up:
- Face to face is best. Because they can ask questions and you can explain.
- In a private place like their house. Especially if you think they will make a scene. When you have finished, you can leave, rather than having them refusing to leave.
- Be firm, direct and polite. For example, 'I don't want to continue this relationship. I'm sorry if you are upset but I don't think it's fair of me to carry on seeing you because I don't have any romantic feelings for you.'
- Be honest. Don't say that you want to be friends or that you want to take a break if what you actually want is to never see them again.
- Do it at the next available opportunity. Don't string them along, you will hurt their feelings.
- Don't let them persuade you to continue the relationship if you really don't want to. Just repeat yourself until they understand and then leave.
- If you want to be friends, have at least a 3 month break where you have no contact at all. This will prevent the relationship from re-forming and make your intentions clear.
2006-07-25 07:24:56
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answered by Fluorescent 4
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Its not really that hard infact people make it a much bigger deal than it has to be.You simply say I dont want to be with you any more :: state your reason:: The point is if the other person still wants to be with you theres no real easy way to do this but honesty is always the best answer.However dont be brutal, dont need to be like your fraking anoying, or I cant Fraking stand you. A simple I just dont think we are right for each other will do just fine.
2006-07-25 07:23:40
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answered by Sas-n-Frass 2
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Ah it depends weather or not u love him, if u do then u tell him "look, i think right now is not a good time for me to have a boyfriend, i have to get my priorities straight and i think i need a little time for myself before i go throwing someone else in my life..No matter what ill always have love for u but i just think right now i need to go out and live my life.." and if its someone ur just with n hes an *** "i dont think were working out, ive put alot of thought into it and figured out that a boyfriend is not what i need right now" hope i can help
2006-07-25 07:23:26
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answered by babygirl08237 2
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If he is a man, tell him directly in a short and clear way. Don't tell him half-truths or give him false hopes. Tell him that you are breaking with him because the relationship doesn't work for your or because you are looking for another kind of person or because you don't feel as strong as he does. Whatever is your reason.
2006-07-25 07:27:05
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answered by Sissy 4
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There's so many ways in breaking up
My personal favourite is doing it silently like just dissapearing Like a magician Poof.
Change your numbers dont meet him anymore
Or you can just say "I dont think theres chemistry in the relationship and im not feeling anything for you anymore, And i just want not to cheat on my feelings when things arnt working out".
2006-07-25 07:24:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Listen to that Paul Simon song 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover over and over again untill it programs your mind, it worked for me.
2006-07-25 07:24:25
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answered by jhnedrmr 3
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You sit them down-expliain exactly why you are doing it & dont disappear after doing it cos they may say something they never said before & it may be what you were hoping to hear. Always give them a chance to talk before running away.
2006-07-25 07:41:40
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answered by butterfly girl 2
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Tell them you are really a winner-player and not his type. You hoped he would be trainable but he is not. You cant teach him if he doesn't know the secrets right?
2006-07-25 07:26:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Get 2 chairs, and say:
"all the single people in the room, please sit down"
Then sit down. Look at him and say "Dave, sit down, we need to talk"
Works a trick every time.
2006-07-25 07:23:23
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answered by corpuscollossus 3
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