She says I was very selfish and self centered .....Well I was ....but not all the time, My problem was my babies (all 3) momma from my first relationship is alwayz in our bizness what should I do?
2006-07-25 00:01:30 · 8 answers · asked by long and strong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop been a D!head then. try acting the opposite of what you are right now.
2006-07-25 00:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeahhh, I'd be "in your business", too, if I had 3 of your kids. Do the world, and the taxpayers a favor..stop pro-creating. It's really not fair to these children you're bringing into the world. They don't deserve the circumstances they must endure.
Second, stop being a d!khead to whomever you end up with.
Third, stop being a d!khead DAD! Focus on your babies and their well being instead of YOUR D!KHEAD!
2006-07-25 07:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a grown man no one should be in your life telling you what to do your baby momma or your girlfriend. if you are taking care of your kids financially then there really aint no reason for your baby momma to be all up in your bizness, you will never live a happy life if you let someone else control it. take control and be a man and put the person you love first
2006-07-25 07:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do much really. I would suggest that you arrange something with your babies mamma, where you meet her and make it clear to her that your current relationship does not concern her. This is really a touchy subject, because anybody can give you advice but who says that it will have a positive impact on her. She might take it the wrong way and do something stupid. I would suggest taking this matter to a lawyer and arrange meeting the children at a set time and working something out with the maintenance of the kids. That way your contact with her will be limited giving you the freedom of space.
Best of luck amigo
2006-07-25 07:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and quit blaming other people.
sort out your priorities and live up to the obligations you have created for yourself.
you have three not one not two but three little lives you created.
your failure to plan ahead and use a condom ....
you are selfish and inconsiderate.
you need to buck up and be a BETTER Role model for your babies.
you had the fum of making em now you have to be responsible and pay for them.
I don't want to pay for your welfare brats.
you need to get a job hey even two jobs and quit screwing around.
you have three lives you created so DO THE RIGHT THING and Take Responsibility for yourself.
look in the mirror and ask yourself what do I want to be when I GROW UP
2006-07-25 07:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by iowamystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and don't start a second (or FOURTH) RELATIONSHIP until you are out of the other one........
(who's life is it-anyway??)
2006-07-25 07:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you ought to hook up with me instead! Hahaha!
2006-07-25 07:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are one!my advice wear a condom don't procreate
2006-07-25 07:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋