i love my boyfriend and he wants to have sex with me we have been dating for 5 years and known each other sense we were babys. I love him and all and he wont make me have sex but sould i or not?
2006-07-24 23:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should wait until you are absolutely certain you are ready.
If he cares about you, he will support whatever decision you make.
2006-07-24 23:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bubba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't even spell what makes you think you're ready for sex? And, what do you mean you've been dating for 5 years now? Where are your parents/guardians/older siblings? Is ANYONE watching out for you? For this "boyfriend"? How old is he? Sorry sweetie, in the big scheme of life you're but a fetus, so...NO! don't have sex yet. Concentrate on school and girlfriends and well, riding your bike! Talk to someone you KNOW who loves you, not a bunch of strangers on the Internet. I mean, if you can't decide whether or not to have sex, what makes you think you can protect yourself against the perverts on the Internet? I'll say a prayer, you take care of yourself
2006-07-25 00:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ashley,
I would advice you not to have sex at such a young age. Sex is not the only important thing in love. First of all you should try to know him better and also make sure that he is the right one for you. If he really loves you he will surely understand you. Remember to think well before doing anything as you might regret afterwards. Wish u all the best.
2006-07-25 00:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have waited this long and your friendship is strong then why ruin it? You are both growing into different people and there is no way to know at this age if you will be going in the same direction or not. Do you really want to loose your virginity to someone you may hardly know in 3 years time?
2006-07-24 23:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not a sign of love.
Invariably men love women to have sex but women have sex to make men love them.
your boyfriend eventhough he is known to you for a long time is in the peak of hormonal rush. And when he finds out what it (sex)exactly is, he might loose the curiosity which bonded you both and you miight loose him later.
The best thing is to keep him bonded to you as long as you can and make him understand that you are not really ready.
This will generally imply to all women of any age but for you i will only advice 14 is surely not the age to engage in a sexual relationship.
2006-07-25 00:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by niboyce1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for 1 you ar not at a legal age to have sex please i beg you to wait if you have been dateing for 5 ys and you love each other why rush you are still ony babys,you have got you whole live a head of you.and in a few years time you might of moved on with your life met someone else you don;t know what is round the corner if you do decide please use protection good luck.
2006-07-25 00:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by susan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't cos its illegal until you're 16 both of you. If you are caught you and your boyfriend will be in deep $hit.
If you are unprepared, meaning you don't have protection you could get pregnant.Seriously where are you going to get a condom from, no chemist is going to allow to buy a condom.
You may also regret it later in life too.
2006-07-24 23:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your not ready, ill be 14 in less then a month, so i kinda understand, but you shouldnt do it, lots of things could go wrong, and just think one tiny little mistake could flip your whole world upside down, plus if you had to ask then that means your unsure, and if your unsure then you shouldnt do it.... and if your boyfriend really loves you then he will understand, and if not, then you dont want him around,
2006-07-25 00:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Leesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashley, don't do it. I lost my virginity under similar circumstances at the same age. I am 26 now and still regret it.
2006-07-24 23:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by The Apple Chick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart from being illegal, don't do it.
Starting sex at such a young age can lead to all sorts of health problems not least that you will increase your risk of cervical cancer.
2006-07-25 00:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋