We broke up last year-he dumped me but I still love him even though Ive been out with other guys. I still love him but I dont know if he loves me?-any suggesions would be greatly appreciated!!!
2006-07-24 23:41:56 · 18 answers · asked by butterfly girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the only thing you can do is meet him and talk to him with no expectations of anything except seeing why he wants to see you, and keep your guard up. Why did he dump you? If there is no resolution to that question, there might not be a very secure foundation to start over again. I hope he realized how much he did love you and miss you, but beware of someone just wanting to return to a past comfortable relationship while they are waiting for something better to come along. I really hope he wants to meet you to ask you to marry him!
2006-07-24 23:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by 420Linda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all do you know why he dumped you! Second of all if it was not a good reason dont meet with him! Third of all trust me you can love a person from a distance.Fourth and last but not least a normal meeting with him wont hurt so wear something sexy and have him to spend a lot of money on you and want you back real bad for about half a day then say you gotta go home for something, see the main thing is to leave him stuck when he's giving you his full attention. You feel me!
2006-07-24 23:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways to go about this:
It all depends on you...think really hard about where you are in life right now. There's no real harm in seeing him. But you have to be strong and not falter when you see him. Maybe he needs help from you. Maybe he's still stuck up on you and meeting him can make him feel free. You also can use this meeting to finally close the relationship (inside your head)
the other option is to forget the whole thing and ignore him. Life goes on. You never heard from him after your break up.
Remember, a ship tied to the port is very safe, but its not going anywhere either!
2006-07-24 23:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by ram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on the phone why he wants to see you. If he says that is just because he wants to see you as a friend, then ask yourself if you are ready to forget your feelings and move into the friendship space with him. You have nothing to demonstrate or prove, so better take care of your heart. If you don't feel sure or strong enough, just don't go. I think that when something is broken the best think is put it in the rubbish and get a new thing. But Suit yourself. It is your life!
2006-07-24 23:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he knows you still want him. He just wants an easy lay, (he needs an ego boost for some reason or another) he dumped you.... remember?! If he didn't think you were worth keeping before, he doesn't now.
2006-07-24 23:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything is going OK in your life and your ex-dumped you and left you,I don't think you should spoil your life same person,who has already hurt-ed you,find some excuse and say him sorry and save your life and enjoy your life with your Present partner,it's one way love so avid it now.Good luck.
2006-07-24 23:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, yeah, you should meet him to see if he has changed for the better. Better still show him that you have changed for the better too.
2006-07-24 23:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by bloodyminidriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes meet him see what he wants you never know he might want you back, but remember only get back together on your terms
2006-07-24 23:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he want to meet you? Does he just want sex? or is he genuinely interested in seeing you. Whatever you do- don't act too interested. It will only make him think he has you wrapped around his finger... still.
2006-07-24 23:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by oblivious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve the best. You should have standards. You can't change him. If you feel he meets your standards go for it. If he doesn't
"too bad so sad" he had his chance and blew it.
You deserve the best, so go for the best.
2006-07-24 23:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋