tell the the best way to say NO when u get proposed. so tht the other person dont get hurt or something, whats best way???
2006-07-24 23:39:52 · 15 answers · asked by Hot Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember to thank the person for the deep compliment but you will ultimately, hurt him less by just saying that you do not feel the same way about him and do not want to marry him immediately and getting it over with than to continue to see him and deceive him about feelings that are not there. Say it plainly, privately and in a matter-of-fact way. He should be prepared for the truth about your feelings.
2006-07-24 23:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question...
Unfortunately you are going to have to hurt him so do it sooner rather than later...and quick, expect the worst and have an exit strategy ready just in case he goes crazy.
Don't let him think there may be a way of getting back together either....
CRUEL TO BE KIND on this one I'm afraid!!
Good luck my friend
2006-07-25 06:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to be honest. Its going to hurt no matter how you say it but the truth will make it easier and will help the healing process along faster.
2006-07-25 06:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, that you believe in astrology. You will first do astro matching and then only say Yes or No.
2006-07-25 06:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by mann54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. smile 2.make sure theres abut in your sentence 3. its not u its me crap. 4dont forget to say ur flattered
2006-07-25 06:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Semere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just not ready for marriage yet. I'm not saying I never will be ready to marry you, I'm just not ready for marriage yet.
2006-07-25 06:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello...why u r so much worried that he wud be hurt by your NO...you like him???....check his background.....if he is worth you
....i mean never say NO when u want to say YES....otherwise i have seen people repenting for their NOs,,,,,
2006-07-25 07:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you're not yet accepting proposals or else say your not yet ready.!
2006-07-25 07:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by cute_si_jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The classic: No I can't I'm not ready, just know that its not you but its me!!!
2006-07-25 06:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to be too nice or he'll keep on bothering u. be firm about it but don't be too rude.
2006-07-25 06:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋