2006-07-24 23:29:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust yourself and the person you are in love with. It will make you feel secure in love.
2006-07-24 23:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi babe,
a relationship is about 2 people TOGETHER. It's not easy for any of us! It's what 2 people create together. WHAT do you and your
other half create?
IF you want happiness, you gotta work for it and you will get it.
Loving someone is REAL HARD WORK. It takes courage to love someone unconditionally and you can only give and hope that your love that you give is returned! It takes everyone to learn to love, it's not easy. It's not easy for all of us. We are all the same, all wanting to be loved and please love back!
You can only be yourself and not be the babe that you think your bf likes. Cos in the end, it's that image that you'd built up that he likes and not the real you!
You gotta love yourself and like yourself and respect yourself first then he will love the REAL you.
No pretension!
Just be yourself!
I am sure you are a cute lovable girl!
Just fill your days with activities. Hang out with your friends too !
Don't forget your family and friends and get your feet on the ground firmly.
Life is more than romance!
I am sure if you have a more fulfilling life and enjoy your days with well planned activities and deeds, then you won't get that insecure feelings that often and seize the days with your loved ones!
Real True love endures forever whereas the feeling of being in love fades over time.
I hope my analysis make senses & helps. Cheers!
2006-07-25 00:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to see if you can be honest, maintain trust, and reassure each other or be reassured that things will be ok...note that love is not the only things that has insecurities, life is full of them and if you don't take the chance you will never know what you missed out on. Also, just try to enjoy each day, instead of worrying about a future in which a partner may or may not be in.
2006-07-24 23:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say love, it is a river that drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor that leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger, an endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower, and you it's only seed.
It's the heart, afraid of breaking, that never learns to dance.
It's the dream, afraid of waking, that never takes a chance.
It's the one, who won't be taken, who cannot seem to give.
And the soul, afraid of dying, that never learns to live.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
2006-07-24 23:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is about self-confidence. Realising that the person you are with has chosen you.
For instanceyou might think 'he is so good looking, I know he'll leave me bvecause I'm so ugly.' or you could think 'I'm so lucky, he is so good looking, he must think I'm really special cos he could have any girl he wanted.'
Try to turn your negatives into positives - it's hard work at first but you have been listening to the negative voice in your head that now you beleive it - try giving the positive voice a turn - you might actually get to believe a bit of what it says too!
2006-07-24 23:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just believe & relax. With every decision we make in life there are risks involved, are you going to be the type of person who terrified to live your life because of those risks? Or are you going to be the type of person that lives life to the fullest & look back to say I lived an incredible life. Ps: someone needs to tell that girl not answer with a song, she must think for change!!!!
2006-07-24 23:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your self more confident and stronger to feel less unsecured in love and life.
2006-07-24 23:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at this point i dont trust any man! i still believe in love though because God is love. i just cant see myself lovind a man in the near future i'm just to afraid to get hurt by love.
2006-07-24 23:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself most of all and be true to yourself that way love will never let you down.
2006-07-24 23:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself first.
2006-07-24 23:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋