I had a gf. What not i did for her. She shifted from Bombay to Bangalore to do her Dentistry. I had promised her that I wil take care of her & i kept all my promises. I did a tattoo on my chest & wrote her name just to see her smile. Used to take food from nice restaurants for her as she didnt like the hostel food. Got a new flat close to her college. New car, furniture...and everything man. washed her clothes in emergencies. Took care of her like a baby. Neva showed her my attitude and ego coz I love her a lot. But finally she lied to me tat her dad has come to meet her & she wil not be able to talk to me whenever she is with her dad & went & met a guy who had come to Bangalore to meet her. 5 days this happened. she went & met that guy. finally i found out the truth & broke up with her. so many times this has happened. she lied to me & met guys. & she tells me that she didnt do anything wrong!! What the hell man? How can she play with my feelings like this?Bloody Heartless!!
2006-07-24 23:08:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love really entails a lot of feelings... happiness, heartaches, excitement, emptiness, enthusiasm, worry, and a lot, lot more. I could have been very grateful and lucky if I were your ex-gf who might have not realized that she just lost someone extraordinary like you. Many women would crave to have someone like you who do a lot of special things for the woman you love.
Don't feel blue for experiencing the hurting you now have in your heart because you deserve to be loved even so much by any woman in this whole wide world. Perhaps, the right woman has not come your way yet.
I know how difficult it will be for you to forget your ex-gf but you have to do that because she does not give love back to you for all the good things you do for her.Look around you and try to set your eyes on other women. Let Destiny tell who your future love is. Let Destiny work towards the fulfillment of your dream of finding the woman whom you'll love so much and who will love you even more than you'll ever know.
But remember this, if you and your ex-gf are really meant for each other, Destiny will do something to make her realize how lucky she would be to have you as her man. You will know that if she will make moves to get a reconciliation with you in the future.
If that does not happen, again, I tell you this. Let time tell what the future holds for you concerning love.
If you need a friend to chat with during your lonely times, I will always be here for you and for anyone who needs friends even from far away places.
Smile. A man like you will be a treasure for any woman who knows what love really is. Good luck.
2006-07-24 23:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way before when my boyfriend cheated on me too. I really trusted him and even though my parents doesn't like him I still kept our relationship coz I thought he is the one.
You know some people just doesn't content in one, they like trying different kind of flavours like food. I cought him with my two naked eyes kissing with the other girl and the bad thing is that girl was a friend of ours.
From then on I tried to forget him and moved on. I went with my mum to Australia and started a new life. You just need to think that they're just not the only person in this world to love and hurting you ones is enough.
Open your eyes and maybe the person who is definitely for you is just there somewhere in the corner. Know the girl well first and try to know her background. A person who's sincere in a relationship doesn't need to lie about herself/himself.
Having a relationship with someone will cost you everything specialy your feelings. Take it easy and moved on.
2006-07-24 23:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you HAVE to be 100% happy with yourself , there is no one in this world that can make you happy but you. Then you are so ready for a relationship trust me you'll see. And there's nothing at all wrong with being by yourself. I like it too. One isn't always the loneliest number. Just remember people only treat us the way we allow them to so if you always feel hurt don't set your self up for it
2006-07-24 23:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by funluv-n-rmt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how hard it is being in your situation coz i almost experienced that too. I think you should set her free for now so that she will realize your worth to her and also she would know that she's really lucky to have you. Just think positive, ok? Just remember that if she really loves you, she'll come back to you. For now, you should just stay there and wait what will happen next. YOu did your best already with your relationship, its time for her now to SEE your worth. Best of luck!
2006-07-24 23:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must build up your character. It seem as though you should have seen through her long, long ago. Make it your business to not be played or used...no matter how much love you have, or how pretty the girl is.
Keep being a decent person and someday your special gift will be appreciated and awarded with someone special.. First though remember this..."To thine own self be true".
2006-07-24 23:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is better for you to believe what you see rather than hear. People can say whatever they want, it might be true and not true. If your girlfriend did that to you,I think you better off without her. It happened to me before, I can feel your pain. Its like the question in your mind that wont get an answer......
2006-07-24 23:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by jummum1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are now fooling yourself more by telling your story.Girls are like that only (though few of them are nice).Don't worry some persons learn lessons of life practically and other learn by other experiences.
You belong to first category and me the second.LOL
2006-07-24 23:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by happu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother..listen up man listen up...Its time for you to have some pay back..tell her you bought her a nice present and go take her to your flat and then have the meanest, dirtest, and roughest sex you ever had in your life..do it for revenge, do it for yourself!! It happend to me once and I messed her life up worse and she was begging for me to come back after I pounded her good while she was with another guy..this ****** needs revenge and I dont know you but I feel for you brother..if you were my friend I will gladly take revenge for you for free. take it easy man
2006-07-24 23:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the learning curve life throws at us. it takes time to meet the right one. this time you were wrong......youll meet someone that is just right for you. it hurts always does. but each time we learn more of what kind of person will suit our needs our wants. its hard to find someone that is honest, loyal, sensitive, and loving these days and also to have that attraction. but it will happen
2006-07-24 23:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey try a relationship with Jesus- He'll never leave you or let you down. I know this because people will hurt you even when they don't really mean to.Its life
2006-07-24 23:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Cosmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋