I did treat her bad, But I never cheated on her. I was just mean and selfish and really never showed much loved towards her but .....this is the third time we broke up and I begged her back...now she saying I won't change but I wanted to marry her and really make a change. But we been split up for like 2 weeks and she told me last night she slept with someone else just because there's was nothing else to do. Should I want her a$$ back after that? or should I just say to myself we weren't together so why does it matter??
2006-07-24 22:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by long and strong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's over, time to move on.
2006-07-24 22:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is based on trust, honesty, and respect! Now listen to me- you didn't respect her by treating her bad and being selfish. Okay now you wont be able to trust her because she slept with someone else. Here is the tricky part yall are even so if you get back together be together and split everything down the middle even yall hearts. The last option is to just be friends! How about that!
2006-07-25 06:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want her back when you did'nt treasure her while she was with you?
u need to understand,that now there are a lot of scars developed in your relationship which might fade but never be clean again and above all she has moved on,she does'nt want you anymore....
the best thing for you is to accept the fact n move on too!!
2006-07-25 06:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest if you treated her so badly you should be lucky she's even back with you at all! i would think the fact that she slept with someone else while you were broken up must hurt but you can't hold it against her. i don't think you should be thinking about marriage until you can sort your relationship out. good luck!
2006-07-25 06:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't treat her good. I would have dumped
you ALONG TIME AGO.
It's over.
Too bad that man she cheated with wasn't for keeps.
Move on. You would just hurt her more if you were
together.
2006-07-25 06:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real plonker, I say to her good riddance, you treat her badly, so what is your problem, just be on your way and let her be to find some one else and get on with your own wayward life.
2006-07-25 06:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause your a selfish pig you want what you cant have let her find a good man
2006-07-25 06:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on... since you did treat her bad n showed her no love i guess diz is her 2 show u your na ash*le
2006-07-25 06:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by TraVieZa_420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you treat her bad then you complain about what she does when she is not with you?
2006-07-25 06:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋