im dating this guy,n last weekend we had a fight,not physical though ,i got realy hurt n i cried...u know what... he smiled at me...he is kinda sensitive, when he cries, i hug , or hold him n tel him he doesnt have to think too much,its gonna be ok...u know those kinda things...and i expect him to do the same. we not fighting anymore and we didnt talk about it. i went to my parents house over the weekend and now im back since sunday...and i dont feel like i used to since i thought he was the guy for me, n now i dunno. i refused 2 have a shag with him, but will i be able to continue like this?besides i dont think i can, like i said , my feelings changed,yet confused,he never talks,so talking isnt going to sort things out..they say loving some1, u r not supposed to expect the same things u give...what do u think i should do?please help
2006-07-24 22:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
r u sure u don wan 'im ?
try to be honest & ask yourself : what you want in [every sphere of] life.
think hard.
2006-07-24 22:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like its coming to an end.if he dont talk then how can u work it out.yeah ur feelings have changed so that means u are ready to go but he needs to show u at least that he really wants to be with u. hes not really giving u a reason to stay.not talking is very bad so if he dont want to talk then he needs to accept that its over.are u sure that u want to move on u. if someone was the one u cant just give him up that easy.so u need to ask urself are u sure its not working and it would be best if u moved on.so oce u decide that u know what u need to do.just prepare for a tear storm.be strong ok.good luck
2006-07-25 05:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to continue just because he is sensetive?
u know why
because the sensititive person will feel u will and maybe u will have many bad moments in ur life in the future then u will not need the sexy guy u will need the person who feels u and hug u
to feel u forever this is the love
ty and bye
2006-07-25 05:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by linkinpark814861 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're feeling forced to get physical (intimate), something is wrong. Don't get too attached to this guy, it might not last. Either way, you need to talk this out (the fight). And don't do anything to compromise yourself!
2006-07-25 05:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by joeymar567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz talk 2 him why he smiled instead of consoling u .the only solution is to talk to him abt your changed feelings,and give him another chance if u really luv him.
2006-07-25 05:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by ABCDEF,,,,,,,,,,,,, 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a nice shag....i think after this he'll be very willing to discuse your proplem
2006-07-25 05:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Rasman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on now.
2006-07-25 05:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dump him because he cries
2006-07-25 05:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋