She communicates with him by e-mail and phone. I became aware of it when I was asked to fix a computer hang up. Her IM was running and a message was received when I cleared the issue. The message referred to a former conversation, and a missed phone call. There were also terms of endearment. I have not discussed this with her.
2006-07-24 22:17:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u shuld confront her about it cos very often things like this start up innocently but then take a turn for the worse
2006-07-24 22:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by moment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that would be an issue, especially if they still have a term of endearment. If I were you, i'll talk to my fiance. Better to have an open communication with her. Discuss it with her. Tell her that your bothered by her constant communication with her ex. Tell her that for sure if she's on your shoes she'll feel that way too. It's not that you're being possessive but of course you dont want her to create another relationship outside of your relationship, its really borthering.
2006-07-24 22:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her.
Don't fly off the handle if she admits she hid it from you.
She was probably afraid you'd get mad.
This happened to me and we were just friends, but my husband didn't like it, so I cut way down on the contact and now he's fine with it.
I still talk to my guy friend, but I always let my husband know what we talked about.
He feels respected that way and I have nothing to hide, so it's all good.
Hope it works out for you. : )
2006-07-24 22:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mary* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would discuss it with her...she should not be doing this when she has a new man in her life...i would not stand for it..they do not have children to talk about so she needs to make up her mind about you or him..that is that...ask her if she would like it you did the same thing...turn about is fair play....she wants to talk with him so much then why are they not together...she needs to make up her mind....now
2006-07-24 22:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow - formal! you need to discuss it with her straight out, but make sure u don't sound like you're doubting her. just say "hey i saw this message on your IM, all ok?" and let her explain. if she acts shady, you know what to think. if she's honest, you're sure not to need to worry
2006-07-24 22:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your fiance and she loves you, she should understand your feelings. so go ahead and talk to her directly. if she really wanna be with you she will stop communicating with him, and if she doesnt, then no point carrying ahead a relationship with her. because she will never be loyal to you, when trust and loyalty is a base of any relationship.......... now its all upto you.
2006-07-24 22:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by pupun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss it with her and try to find out if she loves u or not. If she's a pute then leave her
2006-07-24 22:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and then drop her like a hot potatoe, she is no good
2006-07-24 22:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you the jealous type? get over it!!!
2006-07-24 22:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋