I have proof that my bf is cheating. But everytime i question him about it, he has a stupid excuse or he denies EVERYTHING and stars screaming and hollering at me. Even when we dissagree about something (little or big), he screams and hollers at me. It makes me really nervous. Then, he yells at me more because he says i have no reason to be nervous. I'm afraid that if i try to break it off, he'll hit me or do somethin and wont stop. (He is alot stronger than me). If he does no one will be around to help me. Calling the cops wont do any good because he dosent care. I don't think he will follow a restraning order. What do i do?
2006-07-24 22:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If possible, go visit a friend and stay overnight but don't tell him where you are. Call him on the phone & tell him you have proof that he cheats on you and you don't want to see him anymore. That way if he tries to go to your house, you're not there. Tell your parents or someone that can defend you if he starts stalking you. Call the police before he finds you and tell them about this. That way they know about his temper.
Don't be afraid of this guy. He's a loser and a coward. If you think he'll hit you, he probably will. Screaming at you is just the beginning. Get rid of this guy fast ! Don't let him scare you into staying with him.
And when he hits you, hit him back !
You deserve so much better, sweetie. Good Luck and don't be afraid.
He's just a stupid @**hole that doesn't deserve you. Respect yourself. : )
2006-07-24 22:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mary* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave, run away, leave him a dear john letter... go somewhere where he won't find u... u have to be strong, if u really want to, u will do it... ur not tied to a post... if u already know what he's capable of, then don't put yourself in that situation... just bounce! go cold turkey, if u can't find a place to hide from him n feel he's gonna catch up to you, go to a battered womens shelter, even though you are not yet battered, the emotional abuse you are going through is enough for them to want to help u n take u in... it's really all up to you.. r u ready to move on? be strong n love yourself.
2006-07-24 22:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by I am your weakness! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... you and me are in the same boat. i just broke up with my boyfriend! so just sit him down and tell him what's up. he wasn't worried about you when he was cheating so don't worry about him and let him have it yell and scream at him like he did to you! if you are afraid he will hurt you, you should have been out of that relationship a long time ago hunny. have your dad or one of your guy friends go with you! don't worry about it you will be fine!
2006-07-24 22:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a sighn that he does not want you anymore so my gal stop it from there before going far is not always to walk out in a relationship but these one you does not deserve that a man should learn to respect a woman.so change you way dont see him, but yourself busy if not he can even kill you.stop being around him do you thing gal
2006-07-24 22:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the cops for if they cannot restrain him? make it legal with this thug and get a court order for non-harrassment, he'll never dare look you in the face.
2006-07-24 22:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me his adress and if he tries anything I'll kick his ***... Well.. Get your best guy friend and have him around when you break it off.( make sure he's strong ) Anyways. Do it in a public place or something. Slip a pill in his drink. O.o
2006-07-24 22:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't follow a restraining order then call the cops and they will put him behind bars so he will be stuck and have no choice but to follow it, what else more can i say, leave him, thats it, if he scares you then call the cops, its their job to protect you
2006-07-24 22:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move and change your name
2006-07-24 22:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by will t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋