My boyfriend asked me to masterbate in front of him and another time he asked me to masterbate in front of him so he could tape it. Also he asked me to have sex with him within a month and a half of our relationship. He also wanted to take some pictures of me, pictures that could get him off while he's masterbating. I broke up with him then we got back together again. After we got back together and I said I didn't want to do anything sexual for a while he agreed to respect that. I also told him that my friends thought that he was in it for the sexual pleasure he gets. A few days after we got back together he asked me to do some stuff on camera for him since we wouldn't be doing much for a while. I mean doesn't it seem like he's placing his sex drive above proving to me that he's not in it for the sexual pleasure? He also apologized to me for rushing our relationship too, he said the only reason why he rushed me was because he loved me so much. I think that's bullshit.
2006-07-24 22:00:49 · 40 answers · asked by hearts99992000 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone for reassuring me.
2006-07-24 22:05:15 · update #1
Thanks everyone for reassuring me.
2006-07-24 22:07:21 · update #2
I just want your opinion on this that's all not to hear how naive or stupid I was.
2006-07-24 22:12:06 · update #3
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2006-07-24 22:13:03 · update #4
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2006-07-24 22:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HE'S using you for his sexual pleasures and nw he's just trying to get on your good side so once your vonerable he can take advantage of you dump him now and be through with him hes nothing but a porn pervert he's probably making videos or something maybe even has hidden cameras in your room i think he's not fit for a BF and he doesnt care about you just the nasty feeling that you give him so if i were you i would dump him he gives men in the world a bad name ti'll it makes it hard to believe that there are any good one's out there i hope you leave him alone and go on with your life cause you dont need to be worrying about stuff like that i mean you have feelings too dont you your only human.
2006-07-25 10:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with you. I think this do is asking you to all this stuff to see how far you would go and so that he can have something to play alone with. I do think that you rushed into the sexual part of your relationship way too soon seeing as though you are second guessing yourself right away. If I were you I would get all of the naughty pictures and tapes back from him and end this relationship seeing as though it is just repeating itself. Just make sure you get all of the pictures, ect because you never know where they might end up!
2006-07-24 22:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by jadefrstlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. He's only apologizing to keep u so he can do more sexual things with u. Dump him cuz he's in it for the sex but if u LOVE him try to talk to him about it in a serious manner. If he still doesn't respect u dump him cuz no man is worth keepin around if he cannot respect u and your body.
2006-07-24 22:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think his motives are not true, they probably aren't.
To all you women out there. If you man wants to do do something sexually you are not comfortable with... Don't do it.
A real relationship is based on much more than sex. Sex in many cases is secondary. Oh yeah, one more thing. Don't do anything on camera, unless you want to see it on the Internet when you break up.
2006-07-24 22:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah he may not be using u but he is getting off taking pics of u. i mean i would to thats hot. if a girl is comfortable with it. u c u dont have to do it but if u want to then kool.so u broke up with him why did u get back with him.well i think ur not liking him taking pics then tell him no more. what if hes showing people these pics u know.so if ur not comfortable then tell him.well i think most girl would rather have sex then take pics of them doing stuff. so yeah but what guy wouldnt want that. yeah this is keeping him kool and not asking for sex but u need to tell him if ur not kool with it.good luck
2006-07-24 22:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right on! The fact that he's taking naked pictures of you makes me think that he's also doing something with your pictures, probably posting them on some amateur site! I suggest you just let the loser go and find yourself a real men who'll take it slow with you. You can start by meeting the guys from webdate and wealthymen.
2006-07-24 22:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes using you for his sexual pleasure other wise he would respect that you didnt want to do anything sexual he said he did respect it but since he asked you do somethings on camera i dont think he respects you at all. if your still with him i say brake up with him because he just wants the sexual feeling he gets not the love he says he "feels" about you
2006-07-24 22:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by name_forgotten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like bullshit to me, too - but, of course, it's a complicated situation.
If the on-camera stuff makes you uncomfortable - for any reason - then you should absolutely not do it. And, if he can't understand that, then there's your answer. If he doesn't respect you, and your relationship enough to simply NOT do something, then his motives become pretty clear.
2006-07-24 22:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude See's you as a peace of a*ss. nothing more. He has no respect for him self, so there for he can't respect you.. You Are better than him. You should find some one on your level, who makes you feel good, and when you take part in sex,Its because you want to not because some sick perv play-in to care and thinks they're your boy friend..
2006-07-24 22:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by ( ((G-Force)) ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, sex is one of the main reason to be with someone you care about and are attracted to. I think you are using him so that you are not alone. I think you and he should part since you are not compatible, and then you need to think hard about what you are willing to give. I also think this is the wrong guy for you, and, as stated, you are using him because you are lonely.
2006-07-24 22:07:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋