i have feelings for tiz american guy ...he too is attracted to me ...hes asked me to come for dinner in tiz restaurent..tiz is our frst date but im frm very simple family and never been to classy restros b4 and i know ill sound so stupid to u all but i really dnt know all those forks u guys use ..what shud i do ....i dnt wanna get embarassed in frnt of my guy ...
2006-07-24 21:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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if he likes you, none of that'll matter
he'll probably think it's cute.
oh and he's more likely to mess up than you.
because us americans tend to not know our fish-forks from soup spoons.
ok what I recomend to you. for anythning on manners is a book entitled:
"how rude: a teens guide to manners" it's humorous and has every possible situation known to man in it.
it doesn't skim over table manners, escilators, B.O. or sex. so there's nothing to worry about with that book
oh and if you need help really badly... this website seems ok
I googled it for you :D
http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/tablemanners/tablemanners2.html
2006-07-25 07:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no u dont sound stupid. u just think different. u c unless its a fancy place and expensive then u have to worry bout that.still even if it was just pick one and eat.he can teach u in time. dont be scared bout that.u c most of the places have 1 fork and 1 spoon and 1 knife. simple and easy and im sure he will take u to a place like that. so u dont need to worry bout all that 4 forks stuff its ok. its not going to b like that u watch. so dont get embarrased just go and have good time ok.good luck
2006-07-24 21:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth and if u eat wiz ur hands then y should u be ashamed?! Either he'll show u how 2 eat wiz forks and spoons or u can order a dish for which u have 2 eat wiz ur hands
2006-07-24 21:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, wear something nice, usually a little black dress, then tell him that you have never been to a fancy restaurant before, and then do what he does, things should go pretty good, especially since he is a guy and he will love to teach a girl what to do
2006-07-24 22:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and relax and just be yourself. Let him know that you're a little nervous, and if he really cares and is a gentleman he will keep you close to him, hold your hand and make sure that everything is OK.
2006-07-24 22:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, most americans don't really care about how you use your silverware...unless he is from a very high-class(rich) family, he probably doesn't know what to do himself...the fancy restaurant is probably just to show how much he likes you or to impress you...he obviously likes you for who you are, so just be yourself...
2006-07-24 22:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by acidpluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're paranoid just do what he does, and if he's offended by which fork you use you're better off without him anyway.....if you go in intimidated you're not going to be able to be yourself just relax and be yourself if he wanted a proper fork user he would be asking one of them out
2006-07-24 21:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
search the web for "dinner techniques"
2006-07-24 22:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋