2006-07-24 21:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by mala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm fed up of reading stupid questions coming from Indians. You're so immature asking such things. Only you know what is right and what is wrong for you, so why do you ask just for asking sake? Indian ask so many questions, like what's best: love or arranged?, is sex ok if had b4 marriage? etc etc. You better go and read a book than wasting your time here, as you already know too less of you have sex b4 marriage and you blame everyone who has it. If you're girl and you are virgin, you consider yourself superior, like you are a princess and all people should praise you. And for the marriage, you know it very well: you'll end up in an arranged marriage and you'd be so happy that you'll have the impression he/she is the love of your life right after first night together.
2006-07-24 21:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean by interaction ? Do you mean talking over phone or dating or having sex ? If you are talking about conversation on phone or meeting him, then there is no harm in that. Chat a lot. Do understand each other before you get married. But if you are talking about having sex with the boy before marriage, then i would advice you to strictly refrain from this. If you do so, you will not only be doing some thing wrong but there are chances of your marriage getting devastated.
2006-07-24 23:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From where I come, we don't usually encourage much interaction before marriage. But the times are changing..
The new generation does not exactly follow tradition. I'm assuming that your question relates to two people who are in all probability going to get married.. That being said, I do not see any problem in two people interacting in any way before marriage.. But this is once again subject to the needs of the two people concerned. What they do is of no concern to anyone.. If the both of them want to do something, then they are free to do it. After all, it is their lives and they have to be responsible enough to know what they are doing...
2006-07-24 21:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean is sex between the partners right or wrong? Or do you mean is it okay for the groom to see the bride? As for sex, it depends on the couples and the level of intimacy they are at. I don't feel there's anything wrong with premarital sex as long as it's something that the couple values and finds special. If it's the other, I think it's perfectly okay for the bride and groom to see each other. Weddings are so stressful, being with your partner relaxes you and reassures you that everything is going to go as planned.
2006-07-24 21:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Journey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an Indian right, so am I - But like most other Indian's I live in the 21st century. We meet boys and interact, - intercourse and use our minds. Grow up and then get married - sheesh!
2006-07-24 22:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by 40andgoing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "right" or "wrong". You decide what you think is appropriate for you, your values, your thoughts.
Personally, I think it's important to have an intimacy level that includes sex before deciding to spend the rest of my life with someone.
2006-07-24 21:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Carlitos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean intercorse? Of course it is good. YOu dont want to have unpleasant surprises on the first night after your marriage. you d have to start thinking about divorce then and would be very painful.
2006-07-24 21:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Interaction is under their limits , so it is right else wrong.
2006-07-25 00:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ritu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interaction is a must .. and intercourse is optional ... lol
2006-07-24 21:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with whatever kasthy said .....ok stay cool ..its your life and you hav to lead it in your way you know what you have to do.. ok
2006-07-24 21:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sydwho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋