2006-07-24 21:13:15 · 7 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They don't call it woman's intuition for nothin'.
If you think he's lying, it's probaby because he is.
If you think he's hiding a secret, it's probably not in your best interest to push the issue. If he's hiding something, it's because he knows it will hurt you if you knew. If it's something really important, you will find out eventually. Sometimes guys just need to "cave". They respond better when you simply say "I can hear it in your voice something is eating you up and if you just want to vent, I'm here to listen." Then, leave him alone. Simple.
I was married to a LIAR for 10 years. And sometimes I still get fooled. But for all basic purposes here's some tricks I picked up to catch a liar in action.
1. Watch his eyes. If he looks to the right, he's telling the truth. If he looks to the left, he's "looking" for the right answer.
2. If you ask a question and he says "what?" or "huh?" immediately, sounding as if he didn't hear you, it's an instinctual tactic that gives him just enough time to think of a lie while you repeat yourself.
3. My favorite - the more detail he offers in his explanations, the more blantant a lie it is. This one is a dead ringer Really.
4. Remember his answer. Ask him the same question a few days later. See what details have changed.
5. Good liars will use manipulation to try and make you forget what you asked. They will sidestep the question and change the subject seamlessly. Stay focused on your one question instead of an interrogation style to deal with this type of guy.
tricky, tricky..... never underestimate a woman. and never ignore your gut instinct, ladies!! ESPECIALLY when a MAN is telling you that your gut is wrong!!!!!
2006-07-24 21:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is avoiding questions you ask him and he hesitates when he answers you. he could be hiding secrets from you. get him to look at you straight in the eyes, if he cant then im sure he is hiding something from you.
2006-07-25 04:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he act differently, and proberbly do things for you that he didn't do before. It will be quite odd things like buy you flowers daily when he never did that before. That is one example, but another thing is that he may be more introvert and agressive to questions about anything you may ask him that borders on the thing he is actually is hiding from you.
2006-07-25 04:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by kirsun10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They act sneaky. They run away from you. Dont' want to talk. Don't want to hang out. Don't have interest in you anymore. Could be one of many things. And it also does depend if you're with the guy or not and how long you've been together.
2006-07-25 04:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your gut tell you? I learned to listen to my gut and I was right when my guy had a secret from me. It wasn't good either.
2006-07-25 04:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at his eye's if they go to the left he is hiding something if they go right then he is not.
2006-07-25 04:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by c3b2a10202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary that guy disclosed every thing to u.
2006-07-25 05:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by john_0502000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋