ok so my girlfiend wants to have sex with me with her best friend and her boyfriend in the same room doing it at thesame time i don't know what to do i don't really want to but she does so i might what should i do
2006-07-24 21:03:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't want to do it, then don't get forced into it if it's not enjoyable for you. you've got to explain this to her and if she really loves you then she'll respect you for it
2006-07-24 21:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I think that the subject of sex no matter what someone elses opinion is, Is something that should be sacred between the both of you that means no visitors, orgies or even some peeping Toms you both need to be in a comfortable loving feel. It seems that the only reason you might do this is because you feel pressure that she will think less of you than she does now. Tell her you want it to be between the two of you because thats what makes it more special not with other people, I am not speaking of experience but thats the way I think it should be a magical and loving connection between you, when you bring a friend in a love affair that is when your troubles begin.
2006-07-24 21:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds good !!!! as i was going through a journal from a rod side stall i got an interesting fact about group activities .That goes like " man produce or gain more manhood watching others at the same time ( i.e group activities)
my opinion about ur question ask her why she want to do such thing and then take a deep and think .the next day go to her and tell what do u feel and why do u feel .if she loves u , she will surely understand
2006-07-24 21:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, and ask the why's - why does she want it so, and why is it YOU don't want to. It may be something somebody told you at sometime; it may be a fear that she will want a "switch" next (her with the other boy, and vice versa); it may be distrust for the other couple, or one of them...
Evaluate your objection, and if you think them reasonable (even emotional response can be reasonable), try to persuade her not to. If you decide your objections are petty, give it a go and see how it works. On the condition that you can pull out at any moment, and nobody should feel offended.
Do it, or don't do it, it's your choice, not hers.
2006-07-24 21:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth some might do it and others may not but me and my boyfriend and my best friend and her boyfriend was all in the same room but diffrenet beds and rite after her and her mann did it me and my man did it so really it wasnt really badd.! So if you want to go ahead.!
2006-07-24 21:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just focus on her you won't even know the other couple is in the room. Make sure you guys start first so the pressure won't get to you plus you don't want to hear them screaming and moaning. Focus and have fun!
2006-07-24 21:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know a little role reversal could go a long way here...
you in doggie style at the front of the line your girlfriend behind you with a strapon the other male in the group plugging your girlfriend and his girlfriend plugging him with a strapon...yeah know you could switch it up to the possibilities are endless here....my god say yes to your girl and take in the bum like a man ....
2006-07-24 21:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
In my opinion, doing SEX in front of other people is an embarrassing experience(my Personal Opinion). But I say one thing, do what you heart permits...
2006-07-24 22:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by oyee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and i once had sex at a friend's house while she "Watched," but it got kind of insulting when the watcher got on her computer and started playing online chess! Whata *****!
2006-07-24 21:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My usual rule of thumb with sex is that if you aren't comfortable with the idea then don't do it. You wouldn't want to suffer performance anxiety would you!
2006-07-24 21:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by newcombeemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a problem or issue with having sex in front of people, don't do it. You don't have to do it because you love your girlfriend; if she loved you, she wouldn't ask you to do something you were that uncomfortable with.
2006-07-24 21:07:32 · answer #11 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋