So I lived with my grandma all my life and I'm not close with my other grandma. I only get to go over to her house to see her once in a month or two, unlike my couzin who's very close to her. Now I feel like she likes my couzin more than me - when both of us go see her she's a lot nicer to her than to me. When we leave she gives my couzin stuff like fruits and snacks and I get nothing. She even blamed me for something I didn't do. Is there anything I can do?
2006-07-24 20:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by rach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her you might play a part in the nursing home she will go to someday.
2006-07-24 21:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There have been a gap of understanding as you do not stay with her. She is closer to your other cousin both understand each other better and can treat other more casually as both have been so u wsed to each other. There is a distance in your relationship with her and therefore she will misunderstand you or mistaken you. She doesn't know your likings and perhaps dare not even give it to you worrying that you may not want it. I would suggest that you should make the first move by making more regular visits and calling her on the phone so that you can patch up the missing gap. Sooner or later the relationship will improve and she will also become more casual and you will feel warmer.
2006-07-24 21:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
her behavior seems unfair...I would rebel against it and treat her the way she treats me maybe even worse(thats just me I dont care how old you are!) Become more independent and work on yourself as a person do not let her affect you or your views on life! Once she realizes you dont need her she'll start to wonder about you.
2006-07-24 21:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be sincerely nice, I suppose. You can't really control what someone thinks and how they act. Hopefully she'll come around.
2006-07-24 21:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by rykuna_732 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on your own self respect and self esteem so that others opinions and treatment of you won't matter since you will learn to like, love and take care of your self.
2006-07-24 23:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very ,very kind to her.She is in her second childhood.So be a good friend to her.
2006-07-24 21:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, push some more,do to her what you want her to do to you, bring her gifts.. presents for no occasion.. hug her tight whenevr you visit..
2006-07-24 21:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to fullfil her wish
2006-07-24 21:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by hanifrng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋