i had been with my ex for over 2 years now when she just initiated the break up. i have been very nice to her and all and so has she. and suddenly said she is having qualms about her love for me. i dunno how to respond to tthat. thats why she suggest we dun remain together . this is the first time i am commited to a relationship that i finally noe the true meaning of love , in the past i had a horrible history of being a casanova. now it is coming back to me and i feel the pain. however i felt that being a casanova at least i knew those girls still loved me. but being so nice to this girl has led her to love me less?. is it true that women just wanna be with bad boys as they are harder to make them commit? and that nice guys always lose the battle of the heart?. pls advice
2006-07-24 20:44:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women want the bad boys you're talking about. It does seem kind of funny that a women would want a bad boy at all. Why choose the guy that mistreats and disrespects you..I dont' know. I dont' get that either. I think nice guys are the one's who ultimately win. We date the bad boys, we marry the good guys. Just hang in there. You sound like a great guy, there has to be someone who will appreciate you for not being an @$$hole.
2006-07-24 20:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys without courage and charisma do finish last. But that doesn't mean all nice guys are going to lose.
Getting women is not hard. Keep in mind courage, charisma, and confidence are key. Women are very attracted to that.
If a women doesn't want to be with you, don't focus on it. Move on. Their are better things out there and if you are patient you will find one.
Good luck
2006-07-25 03:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go return to your cassanova roots.
2006-07-25 03:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by steveinprague 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋