I only want to be friends with every guy I work with. I've told them I am extremely in love with and devoted to my boyfriend. But they still want to take me out. Five of them! Not to mention that guys have never liked me before this year, so I have no clue what to do! I've always just had guy friends and it's worked up until right now. It ironic because right now I'm the fattest I've ever been in my whole life and feel the worst about myself lol. I don't know how to be more obvious than I've been. Will their feelings just fade if I keep rejecting them and telling them I'm only looking for friendship?
2006-07-24 20:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by Carmen C. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it possible you like this attention? Five guys just won't leave you alone? Sounds like you might be giving off the wrong signals. Its got to be an incredible boost to the ego, since you never got attention like this before. Most men fear rejection on some level. If you have 5 guys who somehow didn't get the picture maybe you weren't clear enough. You can't say no and nod your head. If you really know you have done all you can and you are seriously being harrassed, do something about it, there are laws for goodness sake.
2006-07-24 20:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Theavatar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Their feelings might fade. But you might have to SHOW them what you mean. For example, agree to go out with them, then bring your boyfriend. Show them that you mean business when you're saying "friends only". Some guys just dont' seem to get that not all women want them.
2006-07-25 03:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u keep saying u want to be friends their feelings will eventually fade away. If not, report them
2006-07-25 03:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them there are work harrassment laws, and if they bother you again about it, you will report them! When guys hear that, they back off faster then roaches when exposed to light (Which is what it sounds like these guys are).
2006-07-25 03:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said it and he still doesn't get it the boundry is talking(aka you ignore him totaly) and if he tries something give him a nice left hook.It may hurt him but best nip this in the but quick before he gets too atached.
2006-07-25 03:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even tell them that you are looking for frienship. and if they keep asking you out and stuff just thankyou but im doing something with my boyfriend that night
2006-07-25 03:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to report them for sexual harrassment if they continue to bother you.
2006-07-25 03:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by steveinprague 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order
2006-07-25 03:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And ur problem is? ... Have fun while it last, girl
2006-07-25 03:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by pearlyciel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boss. plain and simple
2006-07-25 03:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by tim e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋