ive been having weird dreams?

Question

I ve had weird dreams about my b/f... they weren't very good, one was that we were walking in the woods
and he kept on picking up every single snake that he would see and
threatened to throw it on me and i tried to run away but when i got to the
end of the woods there was like a 30 foot snake trapping me and my
boyfriend tried to reassure me that they wouldnt hurt me and then a snake
fell on me and then i woke up... and the 2nd dream was he was being
kidnapped and he struggled and all that and so they were like well ok we'll
just take your girlfriend and he was like ok thats fine with me just as
long as its not me.

any ideas what they could mean??

we've been going out for 8 months but have talked off and on for a long time before we went out.. something always happened in the past to keep us from going out.. but 8 months ago we just went ahead and started dating.. he had a break up before me that was really hard on him and i saw all the pain he went through it was horrible.. he was so depressed and upset

Answer 1

seeing snake in dreams is associated with suppressed desires and also is a warning of risky times ahead and your second dream stems out of insecurity in a relation . both the dreams are symbolic but also warn ahead of rough times

Answer 2

Dreams are a tricky situation. There is no real science available to interpret dreams: only some theories available through some Psychological literature.

Still, since you feel as though these dreams may have merit, I would pay attention to that feeling. My experience in dream analysis is that the person having the dream must describe the dream in as many details as possible a few times. Then, relate the dream back to his or her own life to someone trained to help you understand them.

From what you have provided, you boyfriend placed you in two situations that were very uncomfortable to you. In one dream, your bf assurances that the snakes would not hurt you ended in a snake falling on you...but was the snake attempting to do harm? In the other, your boyfriend decided to save his own life by sacraficing your's. The comon theme is your inability to trust your boyfriend. While we cannot be sure from the information provided about the first dream, you obviously felt scared to be in the situation with him. In the second dream (and let me remind you that the dream was CREATED in YOUR head) your boyfriend refused to help you in order to save his own life.

These are feelings YOU have. The dreams do not speak of his true character, but of how you percieve his character.

Therefore, the commonality seems to be your distrust. This is where I would begin to pay attention. Examine your true feelings towards your boyfriend, and pay attentionto how you feel. Be warned though, the journey within can be very uncomfortable.

Answer 3

It could mean something ...or nothing at all but, I'll hazard a guess. I'd say that you've been together for 6 months or less (a year at the most) and that deep down in your subconsciousness, you FEEL that your boy friend is controlling and possessive of you. You want to get away from him but you can't. As for the "kidnap" part; that means that you feel that your boyfriend will be there for you but only when times are good; NOT when they are bad. You think (inwardly) that if times got really rough and he had to make a choice of staying with you or leaving; that he'd choose to leave rather than "weather the storm" with you. At this point in your relationship; you are probably questioning his motives and commitment to you; and you are re-evaluating him as a person.

Again though, your dream could mean absolutely nothing at all.

Answer 4

Dreams can be horrible and strange. They can be like science fiction. Try not to worry about what they mean. Usually nothing. They are usually just the minds way of processing out a whole bunch of info and it mixes it in strange ways. I know it is a pain. You can try not to watch bad movies, TV or read weird books. You can try to reduce stress. It has happened to me and I hate it. Some people love it. I would gladly give them my dreams and never have another dream good or bad just to be rid of them. The bad ones are so bad and I rarely have a good one.

One thing I have herd is to try to correct your dreams and re think them. I was also told all that stuff about not watching or lettting bad stuff into my head.

I hope they stop for you. Try not to worry. If you are spiritual in anyway and have any type of faith whatever that is work with it. It has helped me.

Answer 5

Let me analyze your dreams.

#1 You don't trust your boy friend and you feel like being offended by him

snake = sex

You do not like the fact that he offended you sexually (physically) or emotionally in your first dream. You felt cheated by him unconsciously That is why projected the snake hurt you eventually even he reasured you.

#2 Totally a trust thing.

You are being manipulated by your boy friend in your dream. You pited him but he still thought of you as replacement. In your dream, you projected him as some sort of self centered trash. However, you still had a feeling for him. You are confused and have conflict in this case.


I could be wrong, but that is how I see from your dream




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Answer 6

There are some schools of thought that say dreams of snakes can mean life. Are you and the boy friend discussing children down the road? Or is there a sudden commitment that he is trying to get you to accept, but you are leery or unwilling?

Answer 7

snakes are phallic (trouser snake) and temptation (garden of Eden) He wants to have a sexual relationship and you aren't as sure of it as you would like to have been. The large snake preventing you from moving forward is an indication that you feel like you don't have a choice in the matter. Not like you were forced against your will but that you're obligated.
He gave you up to the kidnappers...because you feel he's not as concerned about you as he is about himself...his own desires. You might not have really told him how you feel about engaging in a sexual relationship but you feel like if he loves you, he should know how you feel.

Answer 8

dreams dont mean anything for the future, sorry if that dissapoints u, they actually mean your thoughts about what your mind has been on lately,
1st dream.OK you think you b/f teases u, and u going into a place that looks unkown to u, then u think that your b/f wants to get in your pants.
2nd dream. you think he has some problems, and u think he loves himself.
thats the pretty much what i could come up with, hope it helps with whatever

Answer 9

1st dream means that he works hard to earn money to provide a better living for you. He has a plan for you in the future!

2nd dream means you are over worried about your b/f. Relax and take it easy.

Answer 10

I guess spongebob exchange into making a track a sing alongside track! lol perchance it is your inner self. a part which you by no ability chanced on in the previous. That occurred to me too. there is in all risk a part to you which you by no ability knew approximately. i be responsive to I definitely have one yet i'm petrified of what it may be.