2006-07-24 20:28:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he should. Unless they are gay, male friends want to have sex with their female friends.
If the guy didn't find the girl attractive in the first place, he probably wouldn't have spent time with her in the second place. He just couldn't close the deal. Even worst he became her friend. If they both get drunk together and she offers sex, he will take her up on it. Guys should be very wary of girls that spend too much time with their guy friends.
If you disagree with the above, call and flirt with one of your guy friends and ask him if he would come over and pound you tonight. Most likely he will be ringing your doorbell before you hang up.
2006-07-24 20:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's good that he cares but he should trust you not to do anything and to see them as you do girls... if theres really a problem back off of them a bit but don't just drop them cause they are friends. Make sure your guy isn't trying ot control that cause a some guys will slowly isolate you adn other guys are teh first to push out of the way.
2006-07-25 03:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by ill_be_up_in_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Boy friend was the same way... Introduce him to them. Let him know that they are just friends and if u wanted to be with them u would, but u want a relationship with him and he has no reason to be upset.... Hope this helps....If he really has a big issue with it then u have to make a decision... Trust me that sucks... My boyfriend and I broke up for a while over it and now it's ok!
2006-07-25 03:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by tgballoffire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date women with a lot of guy friends for long. You wouldn't like it if his phone was blowing up from females and then he sits there and talks 2 them...you'd be pissed too!
Basically women are sheep and guys are wolves, and wolves prey on sheep. Respect your boyfriend and when guys call tell them sorry i got a boyfriend now and hang up
2006-07-25 03:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by ouch! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up 2 you! above answer is right. you'll experience some tension with your bf. and why you have a boyfriend and boy friends at the same time. well that's more like have more than one bf (or may be you like to have spare). don't get too close with your boy friends. it's like you must choose between north or south of the magnetic fields. in the end you'll be attracted in one polar side. in other word if you choose to get close with you friends of boy. then you'll be one of them gf in the end.
2006-07-25 03:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by arifnpm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg... im having the same problem right now =/... i've been with my boyfriend for a yr `nd a month n latly theres always been a conflict being the fact that i have alot of guy friends or just the fact that i talk to a guy other than him bugs him... i dont know why... i guess its because they care so much they dont want to lose us... he told me that he trust me but not the guy... but sometimes it makes me think that he dosent trust me or that i might cheat on him... n its hard because i dont want to lose my friends but i really dont want to lose him... n when it comes to it... i guess we really do have to chose =/.... haha i know that probably dosent help you with ur question but i just wanted to relate... hope things work out for u.
2006-07-25 03:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Linh N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he should not care. They are only friends, i am sure you don't get angry at him for having friends that are girls. Talk to him about this and tell him how you feel about him disliking you having friends of the opposite sex.
2006-07-25 03:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by dogluver8906 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL DO U CARE IF HE HAS FEMALE FREINDS! IF YES U SHUD RESPECT IT N IF NOT THEN WELL YEAH HE SHUD CARE I MEAN HES A GUY OF COURSE HES GOIN TO CARE CUZ HE UR BOYFRIEND AND HE JELOUSE TYPE! JUST TALK TO HIM!
2006-07-25 03:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by HTOWNGURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope he shouldn't care. All guys get a little jealous when their girls have more guy friends then chick friends... If he trusts you he should relax
2006-07-25 03:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its not natural to have many friends of the opposite sex.
it will only raise tension between the two of you.
2006-07-25 03:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Chaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋