So this guy and I were like best friends, we then went out for half a year, then broke up with me. we got back together a few days ago. but we said to keep this a secret, the next day I tried calling him , no answer, the day after that i try calling and still no answer I called once everyday and still no answer, I was also on aim and he just signs on and guess what NO ANSWER ugh a week later he goes and says he's single and says it to this girl. so I get curious. and then I ask him if we are going out or not and he was like i guess not. and im like wtf? why didn't you tell me this before? why does he have to make me look like a total fool and make me so damn happy that we are back together. Why can't I find the right guy? Does he like making look like a fool?
2006-07-24 19:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by kirsten r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry hunnie, guys are jerks. i've had my share. he's messing w/your heart. as soon as you don't like him anymore, he wants you back. it's a game to him. let him go, you're worth more than that.
2006-07-24 19:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There were some obvious signs that he was up to no good. For example, "Keep this relationship a secret." is probably the most obvious one. Secondly, after the first day that he failed to return your call or even answer your call was another sign. You should never be so anxious to be with someone that you ignore their destructive behavior. Never compromise your standards or values to be accepted by a guy who isn't worth it. Did he make you look like a fool? Yes. Did you learn anything from it? Yes. So, just move on. Don't beat yourself up, because we all have been there. Believe me we all have. Learn from your experience and above all continue to love yourself. God Bless You!
2006-07-25 02:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He makes you look like a total fool because he don't want to look like a total fool around his friends. Thats why he treat you like a total fool.
2006-07-25 02:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by camjamal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the second time you had no answer was the clue. Yeah, that's kind'a mean not giving you the reason why. I guess life's like that. Have you figured out what didn't jive w/him?
2006-07-25 02:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by OhIdonno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love deep and passionately u might get hurt, but is the only way to live life completely. don't allow him in ur life again he is playing with your feelings.the right guy is there for u somewhere so don't give up hope .
2006-07-25 03:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he changed his mind on wanting to get back together with you.
2006-07-25 02:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a guy who did dis sorta thing 2 me............I kept calling for mayb weeks 2gether.................Then, My really close friend( a guy).............Told dat let him go2 hell!!!!.....In fact he said..........let him **** off n .......he has no rite to treat sm1 like this..............I agreed,,,,got some sense in2 me.........N stopped goin after him............N U know wat??? It takes a lot of emotional strength 2 let go of all this................But Moral of the Story-----Don't EVER EVER show urself as a weaker person......Let the Guys run behind U........Not the other way round........
Best 'O Luck!!!
2006-07-25 02:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him anymore if he doesn't answer his phone at all.Maybe you could just hang out with your friends.
2006-07-25 02:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by freakazoid17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is testing u
2006-07-25 02:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by good_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋