sex b 4 marriage!?

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2006-07-24 19:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋

I actually didnt have sex until I got married. Of course it was hard, having your girlfriends telling you that you're missing out, and sometimes feeling miserable or retarded because you feel you're not on the same level as the other girls. I mean, if you feel you want to have sex before marriage, fine. I wouldnt pressure my daughters (if i have kids one day) for things like that. Once you know the difference between right and wrong, you can make your own decisions. Not that I am saying that it is wrong, but it's just a matter of opinion. I got married pretty young, and actually just got a divorce (ex-hubby loved his sisters and his sisters' girlfriends more than he loved me). My cousin was making fun of me, she said that she thought that being a virgin at marriage would make husbands stay with you forever. Thats not it, it's a matter of how you feel about yourself. And I dont regret it, because my first time, I knew that I loved him, and I think it made it not only easier, but better. I've been divorced for a year now and I havent been with anyone since him. Not that I dont want to, but I need time to heal, dont want to jump to anything

2006-07-24 19:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by diamant152001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

These days the divorce rate is about the same for those who had sex before marriage, lived with each other before marriage or abstained. For me personally, I would like to know what I was getting into. If you're serious enough about someone that you're thinking of marrying them? Then I would try out the sex first.

2006-07-25 21:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Sex before marriage is biblically wrong, morally wrong, and mentally a wrong decision. It should be saved for the person you are going to spend your life with. Not only are diseases, pregnancy, and emotional scars an issue, but once you have done it you can't take it back. Once you give it up you have nothing valuable left to give your partner.
Respect yourself and wait.

2006-07-24 19:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by CLEMVIER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

It's really up to you...if you feel completely comfortable giving yourself to the person wholly before you are both committed for life, go ahead but if you have any valid doubts in your mind or heart I would advise that you hold off until you're completely confident in your feelings and commitment to each other.

2006-07-24 19:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by loser4losing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

You better have sex before marriage because after marriage there is no sex and then you find out your partner is gay! Why does divorce cost so much? answer because it's worth it!

2006-07-24 19:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Yo you have to see what the person layin like cuz you have to live with that person till death do you part. You guessin is like rollin dice at a casino. Its all good till you roll craps.

2006-07-24 19:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by RELLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

All for it. But....not with just anyone you decide to kiss and/or get naked with. Only serious partners. At least have sex with some meaning behind it and not just for an orgasm.

2006-07-24 19:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Gotta test drive before you ride.

Try the shoes on before you buy.

Get the right suit/dress before you purchase it.

So why not sex?

2006-07-24 19:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

I don't think anyone should have sex b4 marriage, but hey do what you want it is a free country!!!

2006-07-24 19:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Caitlin S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

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