Ive been after this girl for about ten months not stalking her or anything but ive always been there with or for her i would do anything for her but she doesnt seem to like me. i would treat her as the queen of the world but she just wants to be my friend but im not intrested in her friendship. She is everything im looking for in a girl and i know i am someone who deserves to have her. we get along great we dont argue but we both look eachother down. how can i get her to understand that i really want to be with her and how can i get her to like me back and like me the way i like her?
2006-07-24 19:27:27 · 2 answers · asked by Carlos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she says she loves my attention and having me around and we are really close but she doesnt like me?
2006-07-24 20:10:59 · update #1
Ive told her everything.. ive spilled out my heart..she knows everything i think of her
2006-07-27 04:32:22 · update #2
we have tried to stop talking three times and we still endup again in square one..
2006-07-31 05:33:56 · update #3
"How To" suggestions:
1) There is always another deal. Sometimes we get to feeling that one person or one opportunity is more rare than we think. But she sounds like she feels like you are asking for too much too soon. You may get further with her by giving her more flexibility, and not asking to be her exclusive focus socially at this point.
2) Laugh easily. Don't worry too much about "initiating" or "saying the right thing." Instead, focus on being RESPONSIVE to whatever she does.
3) Don't let bad hygeine be a culprit - so cologne, sharp clothes and clean breath are paramount. ESSENTIAL for some girls - and they don't necessarily feel it's NICE to tell you.
4) If you're not getting the feedback you want, slow your breathing and tell yourself, "It's okay." Politely slow down, but don't be rude. Don't worry about silences, just be easy going. Draw them to you with honey instead of trying to "win" them with the speed of your cleverness.
5) Focus on spending as much time with her as possible. Don't focus so much on "getting her to be closer or more intimate." The more time you spend, the more you will either be drawn to each other or have opportunity to grow attached.
Good Luck. I'd enjoy hearing how it turns out.
2006-08-01 08:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the things that youre telling in the problem i think you should tell her all that you said just now if you want her that bad tell her
2006-07-25 02:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋