the distance and alot of fustration took its toll my girlfriend of 8 years. she told me to find someone else because she wasnt happy and i could not make her happy anymore. its been about a month or two now since she has said that. she really doesnt have much to do with me anymore. doesnt call me to see how i am doing or anything like that, sometimes i see her online, but she doesnt talk to me at all. but not too long ago, we was on the phone laughing, joking, she was showing me some pictures she took of herself etc. we was planning to see each other this summer sometime when we both had off, guess thats out the question now. even though i could be out here looking for other women etc...in my heart i am still kinda loyal to her and what we had. we be great if we could just talk and work things out. i really love her. she seems to be happy with not having anything to do with me anymore. am i a fool??, did i love her more?, its like we never had anything, how could she move on so fast?
2006-07-24 19:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by polo_male 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on and forget about her. Don't have contact with her if it makes it harder for you.
2006-07-24 19:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, been there. It happens. I don't understand it either. I was with this guys for a while and it was as if it was going to last a long time..it really felt that way and we really had fun together and clicked n all......and then we broke up and he was just...ready to be single. Wouldn't come back to me...just wanted to try friends while at the same time still being attracted to me. Made me feel like all teh times we had together were a joke or something. Eh. I think you just have to move on. There's someone else for you out there obviously. Or you guys will get back together later on or something. Best thing to do is start being happy ALONE.
2006-07-25 02:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro u repealed her
see being too nice never helps
she was not into u for may be past 7 years but she was trying to keep it together coz lot of things may have happen between u to
so
face it bro it was there it just took time
move on will be my advice
and being so nice is the mistake u made , that is y this happened.
see the basic thing to be with a woman is to love her but not to express ur feelings too much
and u must be doing it all the time
even in the last talk u had with her on the phone , everything must have went fine coz there was no expressing of the feeling right and later u must have told her the same thing "i love u sweety"
and boom u repealed her again
i hope u can learn something from this experience
cheers bro
move on
2006-07-25 02:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it is hard to let go of some one you are deeply still in love with just remember these words and it goes the same way for women"women are a dime a dozen and i got a pocket full of change"! you should move on and try to find that special woman that is going to love you the same way that you love her just don't take the first one you find because that would not be right to you or her.Get to be friends with the women you meet first that way you get to know them and make sure that they are the one for you and makes sure that they feel the same way toward you. Wish you all the luck.
2006-07-25 02:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helllllllo, was there nothing that either of you could do to combat the distance and frustration? People prefer to be happy. If she wasnt, one cant blame her for being honest. It's not YOUR job to 'make' her happy. Happiness is something one chooses to be.
And apparantly she has made that choice. And it happens to NOT include you. I dont think it's a matter of how strong one loves another. But rather the joy and comfort each derive from and with each other.
2006-07-25 02:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think girls heal faster than guys if the guy is really in love. You're not a fool, you're just in the healing process. It takes a while, but you will eventually get over it and move on yourself. In the meantime, remember to do nice things for yourself, and when you are ready to meet someone new, it will happen.
2006-07-25 02:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by kimba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a fool your such a sweetheart! There should be more men like you. Give her some time to realize what she had and maybe she'll come back if not then maybe it's not in God's plan. There might be someone better for you out there just take your time. Good luck.
2006-07-25 02:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by *XOXO* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what exactly did you have? you had a friend in another part of the world that you didn't even make the effort to move to or bring her to you, what did you have except for friendship?
2006-07-25 02:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out the lyrics for the song "love hurts" from the band nazereth (google it)
2006-07-25 02:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by knowledgeispowerforsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are after-effects of a breakup you'll get over it soon. it's hot out so go-out-of-the-house. make friends with someone NEW.
2006-07-25 02:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by xgoldeniisx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋