2006-07-24 19:03:22 · 30 answers · asked by black_gurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok people you all need to chill out and realize that everyone's situation is different..damn....have an open mind. Is it bad?..not nessesarily. just depends on you and him..and what you both think about it..your heart will tell you what is right..if you think it's going to continue to be just a casual hook up when ever it's convenient for him..well then use your best judgement ..but if you really connect with the person and it feels right..than it's not bad..it's just natural !! some people are just not mature enough to handle it emotionally so be sure that you are and think about how it may affect you emotionally..do you have feelings for this person..or are you just looking to hook up..there's really no right or wrong answer..only u can detemine that.........
2006-07-24 19:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by purpleLeo 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It is only bad if you yourself believe it to be a bad thing morally, spiritually, or physically.
Examples:
Morally because you believe its better to wait.
Spiritually because your religion does not like it.
Physically if you put yourself in a bad position, i.e. could have gotten a disease, raped, etc.
If you are fine with those three points, go ahead and have fun! No one person has the answer for when the best time is if both parties are willing. Be confident enough to let yourself make the right choice in the matter.
In the end if you can look back and justify it your actions by saying you made the best possible decision with the facts you had at the time, then there should be no regrets.
2006-07-25 02:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually yea it is. Because who knows if the guy had an std or not. And you could possibly get pregnant. Those be the worst things that can happen and a baby and some stds are forever. So really think before you go about having sex with someone so fast. Cuz you could be putting yourself at risk in a big way.
2006-07-25 02:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time but I met a guy at a bar on new years 4 yrs. ago and after that we were together for 3 yrs. and I'm going to have his baby soon. But I can remember that he brought up how easy and fast I was, so he labeled me as a hoe. I simply stated that he was the hoe and I was the pimp. I think it's stupid to call a girl a hoe but a guy can be a player. It's all in your mind and in the way you react to peoples judgments. If we spent all our time caring what people say then we will never know ourselves. F@#$ it! sleep with him and show him who's in charge,act like a guy would. Tell him that he shouldn't put his feelings in it cuz he'll get hurt,act like your heartless,he'll like that and feel more comfortable.
2006-07-25 02:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It is definitely BAD and STUPID as well. You know nothing about someone you have just met. If you or anyone else is that desperate to have an orgasm, they need to masturbate, get a dildo, get a vibrator or anything except get into a sexual entanglement with a total stranger for a sexual encounter. That could be a health hazard, resulting in an STD, unwanted pregnancy, AIDS or HIV infection or even a surprise encounter with a serial KILLER!! You have been warned.
2006-07-25 02:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah...now the dude thinks your a sl*t!! He may not come out and say it, but he thinks little of you. Of course guys always LUV!! girls that "give it up", (b/c the don't have to work for it) but they don't respect them!! But even if he does hang around its an understood thing what the relationship will be about and eventually he will leave you anyway!!
That's just Life!!
Good Luck!!!
2006-07-25 02:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad, but its not the best thing to do. If you're in animal mode and just want relief okay, but if you want something meaningful and deeper than that, then build something first. Spend time together, have fun, do silly stuff, then come together.
2006-07-25 02:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not good at all
but if it is true love
it wud b okay
but most probably it affects the relationship for a while
so u have to get over this effect
and u can to make it a healthy relation
and GooD LucK
2006-07-25 02:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by ☆♥angel♥☆ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just that ,,
Sex ~!
Making love is a very special act you share with the one you love, and is more erotic ~ passion ~ caring ~ exploring ~ pleasing ~ deep emotions and feelings.
One night stand is,, (sex on the first date)
Sex~!
( no emotion,s or feelings)
No comparison ~ !
Answer is , what are you looking for ~ !
A long loving term relationship?
Or a one night of wham bam thank you man ??????
~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-25 02:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want 'em to stick around you have to wait and let them wait too. enjoy the time by staying away from your house or his because any girl who lets a man in ain't no WOmAn. ask any guy they'll to u. in a sense, if you wait that's how u can tell the good guy from the bad.
2006-07-25 02:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by xgoldeniisx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋