I've known this guy for a really long time and we both like each other i know cuz we went out before and he tells his friends apparantly and they always come up to me and say so-and-so likes you a lot. i asked him out and he rejected me. he says it's becuz i had my chance and i blew it(i dumped him) but it was a very long time ago. what to do...what to do. HELP!
2006-07-24 18:59:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me like hes just playing hard to get... but thats just me
2006-07-24 19:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is part of life and it does come with some pain, but you need to blow it off and keep on going. If i had to count the number of times i was rejected in life it would be in the thousands. The key is to dust yourself off and get back into the race of life. But if you like this guy a lot just be persistent, i practically had to kidnap my girlfriend on our first date, i just wouldn't take no for an answer till she went on 1 date with me, and if she didn't enjoy herself i would leave her alone. Apparently she had a great time and we have been with each other for 10 years now.
2006-07-25 03:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, then why would he reject you? You obviously hurt his ego and he doesn't want to get rejected again. Why would you want him now if you dumped him before? If he's smart he won't be so hard up to date someone that blew him off because "I dumped him"
2006-07-25 02:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he apparently thinks your not a good girlfriend for him anymore so i would just suggest being friends with him and moving on. of course its gonna be hard since you obviously liked him a lot but he says you blew your chance and so i would try to stop thinking of him in the romantic way. learn to be just friends, maybe hell end up liking you later.
2006-07-25 02:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by angelxxxdevil377 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
little real good
he s still hurt by you dumping him
you could be his friend and work your way to his heart
now i must advice you do not whine or complain or argue with him it will not help u
believe i know
also do not pressure him into being with u u will close him up
please note if he tells u u mess up AGREE WITH HIM do not defend yourself u r not going to win by explaining yourself
act like a friend and close to him he will end up liking u
but now if u pressure him or questions his feelings for u
u will make him feel pressure and he will back off
believe i know
2006-07-25 02:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you have his answer. It's time to move on with your life. As difficult as that is at the moment, there is nothing you can do to make someone want to be with you. Take some time to find yourself and make different choices in the future.
2006-07-25 02:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this guy sounds like a looser and just looks like he wanted revenge on you.
move on and find another guy to be with and flaunt in his face what he could have had but don't take him back
tell a bunch of people that he is gay because he didn't want you and he could have had you.
when he gets a girlfriend mess things up for him by aproaching him and saying something like i really liked our date last night or something to make his girlfriend think that he is cheating on her.
2006-07-25 02:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny, at least he was truthful and didn't lead u on by running game on u. take it for what it is and move on. if u really want him to feel bad about what he said go out with another dude, bring him around, and make the other dude jealous.
2006-07-25 02:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by xgoldeniisx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see girl u shouldnt care now
see u did somthing wrong , u realised it u went back and asked him
the guy acted smart and dumped to to take his stupied revenge
well
its his mistake now
move on , u dont have to think to much on this
2006-07-25 02:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on school, get good grades, go to a great college and make something of your life - everything else you're worrying about is just silly.
2006-07-25 02:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by chi bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah rejection... at least you had the guts to ask.
Don't worry about it, you'll find someone else.
2006-07-25 02:10:21 · answer #11 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋