What did you do to choose heterosexuality? Just curious because I've read on here that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice so I was wondering if heterosexuality is also a choice?
Could Christian please clarify the struggles they went thru in choosing to be straight?
2006-07-24 18:45:15 · 27 answers · asked by GobleyGook 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
5-10% of almost every species of Animals are homosexual as well?
2006-07-24 18:59:31 · update #1
Had sex with a man and enjoyed it.
Don't worry, we all struggle with our sexuality - gay people just have a different kind of struggle.
2006-07-24 18:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was born heterosexual because that's the way God made us to be.
I'm Christian. I've never really thought of heterosexuality as a lifestyle choice, but if I had to choose between the two, definitely hetero. No mind-wrenching, life-changing struggle here. I never once considered homosexuality, because- and I'm not afraid to admit it- I believe it is a sin. But if someone wants to be homo, that is his own business as long as he keeps it that way.
2006-07-24 18:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by ATWolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, heterosexuality is normal development. Homosexuality is more like pedophilia or necrophilia. It's something you have to let your mind wander to and indulge in until it "takes." Would you say people were born pedophiles? If not, then aren't you just a Bible-thumping bigot?
The real question ought to be, "Why isn't homosexuality classified as a mental disease anymore?"
2006-07-24 18:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jake 'N' Shakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is a brain thing and not a sex organ thing. There is nothing wrong with being homosexual. I am a straight heterosexual atheist with very little patience for organized religion. Being spiritual, though I think irrational, is not wrong but being religious divides a people. Read Dan Savage (gay columnist in our City Pages) and he'll tell you how it is.
2006-07-24 18:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by bugguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Homosexuality is not a lifestyle, nor is it a choice. You are born that way. You are born black, white, straight, bisexual, or anything else.
A lifestyle is always wearing red. A lifestyle is living by or against the bible.
Your sexually orienatation is not a lifestyle. Your eye color is not a lifestyle.
Do not believe everything you read, because 2+2= 5 is not true.
Yet you read it.
2006-07-24 18:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by King 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being straight is natural. If animals and humans were gay by nature and hetero by choice, there would probably be no life on this planet. Thats not how it is or was meant to be, so therefore:
Straight is normal, gay is by choice (as a perversion off the straight, like curved).
2006-07-24 18:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellent point. I cannot recall when I chose to be heterosexual. And I challenge the christians to find a homosexual who chose to be one being that they'd be ostacised by society their entire lives.
2006-07-24 18:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what???
im pretty sure i was born straight, i didnt choose it
also if i am correct there are hormones which cause sexual attraction to men, and there are those that do the same for women
not sure if the release of these can be affectedd by the environment around a person
you dont chosse to be straight
you either are or you arent,
anyone who tells you god doesnt like gays so you should choose to be straight is like a white man telling a black man telling he is evil for being black and should change to being white.
be who you are not who others tell you you should be
2006-07-24 18:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by kitty is ANGRY!™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible itself states that no man should lie down with a man and no woman should lie down with a woman.
God created Adam and Eve.. not Adam and Steve.
The original purpose of sexual intercourse was for procreation.. please explain to me how that works with two men or two women.
If God intended for us to be homosexual, don't you think he would have given us the parts to do it right?
Gay people need to quit whining all the time anyway. It is becoming one of the most acceptable things to do. They are even legalizing gay marriages all over the place.
I would also like to state that I don't hate gay people. I have gay friends, and a gay uncle. Just because I don't agree with their lifestyle, doesn't mean I don't like them. The Bible teaches to hate the sin, not the sinner.
2006-07-24 18:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither homosexuals nor heterosexuals choose. Christians have been misinformed. Some bisexuals may choose but even they have their built-in preference.
2006-07-24 18:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by elysian fields 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not choose to be straight!!! You are born straight, like it or not. The only choice you have is to deny your heterosexuality and become a bloody homo.
2006-07-24 18:51:34 · answer #11 · answered by olaola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋