I am in this situation that there is person "A" who loves person "B", but person "B" is seeing person "C" (me). He tells me he loves her, but yet, he is being unfaithful with me. What should i do? She is (was??) my "friend". Should i tell her the truth? I need help!! Should i just leave him? I love...like..him.
2006-07-24 18:32:40 · 12 answers · asked by maryj19_956 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in this situation that there is person "A" who loves person "B", but person "B" is seeing person "C" (me). He tells me he loves her, but yet, he is being unfaithful with me. What should i do? She is (was??) my "friend". Should i tell her the truth? I need help!! Should i just leave him? I love...like..him. I NEED TO REPHRASE THIS. PERSON "A" IS MARRIED!!!! I AM SINGLE. PERSON "B" IS SINGLE, HE STILL TALKS TO ME, ???? IM CONFUSED AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
2006-07-24 18:40:18 · update #1
I feel so horrible for you. Some men have no morals or decency. He is obviously one of them. I know losing him totally would be extremely painful for you, however both you and your friend deserve so much better. You should tell your friend and walk away from him. If he was to leave your friend for you, eventually he'll be doing the same thing to you. Sorry no happy ending.
2006-07-24 18:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mercedes_82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, if she was your friend or is, shame on you. Second, I believe firmly you can love more than one person. People have very different and lovable qualities. The issue is this. You were aware of his relationship before you became involved. So...deal with what the two of you are and don't expect more, or end the relationship for someone who is available to be with only you. I wouldn't tell the "friend" if it were me. But only because the only thing you will have accomplished is hurting her. While your thinking though, think about what this really says about you, and what it says about him. If he isn't faithful, why would you want more than just an affair...there could be no trust!
2006-07-25 01:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by peskygnats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like all the advice people gave you, and I agree with it completely, but there's one thing they left out. "Loving" someone doesn't always preclude "lusting" for someone else. A lot of people keep those things very separately. I have to say, though that this "person B" is pretty messed up because he says he is in love with someone who is married to someone else, and he is also seeing you. Anyone who is having an affair with a married person AND seeing someone else is probably a lot more about the sex than they are about real love, even if they don't realize that yet.
2006-07-25 01:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by kimba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends before boy friends!! Learn that in 101. in 102 you learn once a cheater always a cheater. You can still love him, but you need to find someone that is it love with you, and someone that will treat you right. Find a better guy sweetheart, you don't need the extra ache that will be happening now, or in the distant future!
2006-07-25 01:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your'e No Friend. He's A Cheat, he 's Not in Love with either of You and go ahead and tell her if you really need an ego boost, because yu'd be loosing Nothing. As I said , your not a true friend to her, so if she gets real mad at you it won't matter and she can't loose him, cause she doesn't have him 100% and neither do you. IF it were me, I consider myself Lucky to be rid of him.
2006-07-25 01:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by MoMoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then the law of ethics kicks in! person B is a dog. Humans have morals and values but animals have only desires and urges and can't distinguish what is right and wrong.
2006-07-25 01:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_thinking_&_smiling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the stupid guy, because he will give you another heartahe that he used to be being unfaithfull when she finds another he will leave you too,because he is showing his personality at that moment that he is akind of guy not to be given attention! Ignore the liar!
2006-07-25 01:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as you're the being cheated on. Not all people say they love someone and then cheat. Only the lyers do that.
2006-07-25 01:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now before the karma wrecks your entire life. Don't tell her, you would only hurt her to ease your own conscience. Now you have to live with what you are doing.
2006-07-25 01:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Drill Sergeant J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm....well id start with become friends with person "A" again....since that right there is screwing up everything and theres your main quarrel....after that you and person "A" will resolve with person "B" and set the foot down on what he wants and make sure it is final so it doesnt happen again
2006-07-25 01:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋