i keep telling myself "do it for love" but i just wonder...ok here's the plan: her parents are very religious, they would never let her date him if they suspected him of doing drugs. (i think he does drugs anyway, but i'm not sure) so, i see where his car is parked in her driveway, then i come back at 3 am with a bag of weed. i strategically place it in the driveway as if it fell out of his car when he opened the door to leave...her dad finds it as he goes to work in the morning...you see where im going with this? all i know is i've loved this girl for almost 2 years now...she means the world to me and i tell myself i'd do anything to get her back again. but sometimes i worry if they were "meant to be" and i might mess it up...but he butted in on me so its ok for me to butt in on him right? basically it comes down to this...should i let things take their course, or should i help it along since i love her so much?
2006-07-24 18:24:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh boy. well, i will tell you that as a 17 year old girl i would be completely creeped out by someone "loving" me for years after the break-up. Also, this whole plan to get rid of the boyfriend-- you may be able to turn her parents against him, but she will like who she likes, no matter what. I can say from experience that just because her parents say she cant see him-- doesnt mean she wont. If you two were meant to be, she will realize that. if not, you should learn to be happy for her and move on.
2006-07-25 16:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you are suggesting is highly unethical, and illegal. Perhaps someone should tell her father of your plan. If you love her, you would not work to sabotage her relationship in this way. Sometimes loving someone means that you have to let them go.
As hard, and harsh as this sounds, I think you need help. You should consider going to therapy and talking to a therapist about how you feel and what is going on.
2006-07-25 01:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by professional student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is that you should wait for her. tell her that you love her and that you are waiting for her. tell her that you have mended your ways and that you will love her more than anyone else. thats all you can do. you can help her in her time of needs. if this present boyfriend is as bad as you say then he will be found out soon. all you can do is tell this boy's parents or teacher to give him a drug test.and then pray.
2006-07-25 01:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont' think sabotage is the way to go! I dont' think she would like you at all if she ever found out that you ruined her relationship.
2006-07-25 01:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only a man after you turn 21 bro
2006-07-25 01:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by madd hatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not even 18 and you already need a restraining order...
2006-07-25 01:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋