I met this guy online, and I really think I could fall for him. We have so much in common it's just crazy. Have even talked about meeting sometime down the road. But he's in Arkansas and I'm in Michigan. Don't even know what he looks like, but I think about him all the time and we chat whenever our schedules allow. Is any of this normal or am I completely weird for having these feelings for him?
2006-07-24 18:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can work. My mom is from Arkansas and my dad is from michigan. We lived in arkansas for 12 years and the last 8 years we have lived in Michigan. We have had many Arkansas-Michigan trips over the Years, now we don't even need a map to get there. Good luck to you! Oh and ask him if he is a Razorback fan! Go Hogs!
2006-07-25 08:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by 1hogfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, you are in love with yourself. It is normal cause most people are. The problem is, when you meet him he will not be you. If your only attraction to him is your commonalities then that is not enough to sustain a relationship. But, you have a good basis for a relationship, so the quicker you two can meet the better your chances. The more you get it all out online the less there will be to get out in person and you may end up sitting in front of each other with nothing to say. I would suggest a "picture" and a meeting place if you think the guy is worth it. Otherwise keep talking to him and have your relationship be completely virtual but not go any further.
2006-07-25 01:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mr B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holly, you hear all the time about people internet dating, I personally think that its great. The only concern is if the guy you are talking to is really the guy you think he is. I am sure if you have been talking to him for a while, and he's seemed fairly consistant, then go for it and meet him.... Why haven't you guys exchanged pictures? Place a face to all those chats you two have shared! Just be careful when you meet him, but when you do, I think your connection that you've made from the net will make conversation really easy for you. Thats awesome that you've found someone!
2006-07-25 01:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now it may be hard but come on you can't fall for some one you met online are you crazy!?!?!! He might some 40 year old perv just trying to score, sorry if I sound a little overbearing maybe a lot. And if your not taking my word just picture yourself rapped and left for dead on the side of the road.
2006-07-25 01:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by rockerchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal.... but u might want to see what he looks like.. sounds shallow.. but there always has to be some type of physical attraction there... and people are always different on the phone and online then in person... my ex and i would talk on the phone and then when we would hang out it felt different i dont know why... but meet him somehow (public place of course)... and see how it goes... if u find urself falling for him.. maybe bring it to the next level... but you'll never know if hes mr. right.. or mr. right now if u dont meet him
2006-07-25 01:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Manda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proceed with caution. It is normal for you to have good feelings for someone you have chatted with on several occasions. However, NOTHING takes the place of seeing someone face-to-face, hearing the person's voice, learning their habits, meeting their friends and family members and developing the understanding and trust of a personal relationship over an extended period of time. On line, someone can misrepresent themselves if they wish to do so. PROCEED WITH CAUTION.
2006-07-25 01:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal but it is a big risk. I enjoy meeting new people but watching the news, you hear of these online predators that make you want to reconsider the risk you would be taking. No one can tell you what to do when the moment arises, but just be extra careful!!! people are not always what they seem...and thats a risk in itself when we have to be the ones to discover it.
2006-07-25 01:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm its natural to like someone if there is a lot in common but just remember that this can be really dangerous so if you do meet him make sure youre with a group of people
2006-07-25 01:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holly you should go with your gut feeling there isn't any universal rule on were you should meet anyone so see what happens good luck and let us know.
2006-07-25 01:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't weird. Exchange photos and keep on chatting. Just see what happens.
2006-07-25 01:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Dumbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋