I am his best friend and he preffers to hang out with me over anyone else. I know he loves me because he makes plans for the future, buys me what I want with everything he has and he almost forgot about his other friends. But he gets mad easily and yells at me and at his parents almost everytime he is mad. He is very babied and his parents never say anything back to him when he is the only one yelling in the house. If i tell him to stop doing it, he says that he has a special relationship with his parents and they don't care.
I cant allow him to do that to me because we both want it to be ower way and when we start fighting it goes on for a long time.
2006-07-24 18:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by Diana B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im pretty sure he's not always like this when you're together right? There are some people who are actually troubled, and they usually yell, or curse to everyone (including people they love). That is their way of dealing with their anger. There is nothing much we can do if the person is angry all the time because there are so many things going on in his head that we're not aware of. Sometimes its best to just shut up when hes all angry and yelling. If things go out of hand, like he hits someone or you for that matter, maybe its time to ask a professional. He'd be able to help your boyfriend to deal with anger. Your boyfriend has a lot of supressed anger in his heart that maybe being able to control people is his way of dealing with it. Show acts of kindness towards him instead of being angry also. Be positive that he'll get over this. Just be patient and hope that he'd be more mature in dealing with things.
2006-07-24 18:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not OK for him (let alone anyone else) to yell at you all the time. This is verbal abuse, and unless he gets some professional help, he's not going to change. Sure, he may say sorry and try to win you back (this has probably already happened several times), but you should be able to say enough is enough. Just imagine yourself in the future with young children. He'll probably yell at the kids too and cause them psychological trauma. Save yourself and get out fast. You owe it to yourself and your future kids to have a happy life.
2006-07-24 18:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well his parents have raised him to be this way,but he can make a choice to find other ways to express himself.maybe anger management would be helpful. I am one of those ppl who yells when i get angry and i have to check myself a lot..so I count to 10 or sometimes 20 to get my barings beforee i say anything.If it takes counting to 50 then so be it but getting yelled at all the time is a type opf abuse and let him know that there is now way yopu are gonna tolerate it
2006-07-24 18:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds very controling which is probably why he usually only hangs out with you(not that your probably not a great person and girlfriend) but he probably feels he can control you better than other friends.
Watch out for this...in the future it can become very bad and lead to other types of abuse
2006-07-24 18:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ralph M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a tight slap and tell him to wake up from baby-hood.
2006-07-24 18:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say ..."What part don't you understand..the Buh...or ....the Bye?"
2006-07-24 18:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋