2006-07-24 18:02:53 · 21 answers · asked by jimma j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they find bad boys attractive, but when the bad boys treat them badly, they need a shoulder to cry on. This is where the nice guys come in as friends.
You know what they say: "Nice guys finish last."
2006-07-24 18:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your young. I can tell by your question. Women do NOT find bad boys attractive. "Girls" may find bad boys attractive. This is because they don't know what real life is about yet. It's about Work, bills, responsibility, and most probably raising a family which means becoming a role model. Listen......women marry their very best friend. If they do it right. Not some bad boy who never grew up and can't hold a job or face up to responsibilities. So, yea, bad boys are cute....if your 16. And maybe even if your 40, but........it's the best friends, the nice guys that make for a loving and responsible man. And it's this kind of man that makes for a wonderful husband and father.
2006-07-25 01:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by ktltel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this question is right up my alley!!! I have always fallen hard for the bad boys-because on first glance its a sexual attraction that's very hard to deny.Also many women think they Will be the one to change the bad boy.Let me tell you-that will never happen!!! As I grew older I still see those bad boys and part of me says come get me!!! But now I take time to actually get to know a guy before I get involved in any form.Believe it or not even the nice guys have that bad boy thing deep inside they just have learned self control.Now that's sexy!!!! Don't give up nice guys-just don't let your self be walked on either!! Frankly for me men are easier to understand then most women.
2006-07-25 01:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by alienkismet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens with immaturity. As girls become women (or women get older) they get tired of the run around that always happens with "bad boys". Bad boys are fun to be around short term, but when a woman is ready for the long haul she'll be looking for the nice guy. Stay nice, it will be better in the long run.
2006-07-25 01:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by southern belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because nice guys do not offer elements of danger, cannot protect them if they feel indanger, are not edgy and promise some form of adventure much less sexual misbehaviour that they would never do with a nice guy ( even a nice guy husband ), plus the promise of reforming a bad guy to a good guy ( notice i did not say nice ) is a powerful motive for hooking up. women are attention whores, and they know bad guys get all the babes, they also hate competition from other women, so they eagerly hook up with a badguy to cut off the competition. a nice guy lacks the brass to ever say no to a babe, and then you might as well be in the gay column.
2006-07-25 01:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its a phase that women go though. We like the bad boys style and the way the aren't attached to us, they treat girls as if they didn't know they were there. As good guys are constantly around a girl they like trying to prove they measure up. But like I said it's a phase. And just think it's like the movies the GOOD GUYS always WIN.
2006-07-25 01:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by cubby12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is soooooo not true for me. There is nothing remotely appealing to me about a bad boy, and by that I mean a guy who's self-centered or mean, etc. A nice guy is my dream. I'd like him to be my best friend as well as my lover. Still waiting...sigh... :) Seriously, there are women out there who want nice guys.
2006-07-25 01:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because many women make the same bad choices that their own mothers made.
Many women had no GOOD Man role model, because they either were raised without a father, or were raised with bad man/men trampling in and out of the house.
Its easy, find the woman who wants a good man.....YOU!
2006-07-25 01:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys doesn't really mean abusive boys, "bad boys" are the ones that dare to do things for a girl in a exiting way, and that is what keep girls wanting to be with them....Good guys just haven't realized that yet and still can keep their nice personality.
2006-07-25 01:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because bad boys are irresistable for the elemant of danger they bring to things - it's exciting. Nice guys are boring.
2006-07-25 01:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ken'sBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋