I need help to get revenge on someone that did something to my family. I mean I want this person in tears after I am done with them. Any really good ideas? Please help?
2006-07-24 16:30:22 · 30 answers · asked by only14life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hon, you will find that revenge will not make you feel better about anything. All it does is bring you down to that person's level. Is that really what you want? Why not be the better person and move on? That person will get theirs. Now, if you get revenge, it will come back to to bite you on the butt. What goes around, comes around.
2006-07-24 16:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by ilse72 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge of all is the unity of your family. if i were you i'd sit back and let karma take care of the whole "revenge" thing. Now confronting the person and letting them know that you think what they did was wrong and you want them to stay away from you and your family--is an okay thing to do. Don't waste your time and energy on hate and revenge---life is too short for all that drama. Revenge just creates more anger and revenge, a viscious cycle that will never end---i recommend "don't do it". Good Luck---may the cooler heads prevail!
2006-07-24 16:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will hurt your own soul far worse than it will hurt your target. The best revenge is living better than the person who hurt your family and being a better, kinder person.
Naturally if the person has done something actionable (that your family can sue to recover) or illegal, that should be addressed through proper channels. Otherwise you'll only end up hurting yourself and possibly your family.
Hang in there. You're learning one of the hardest lessons life has to offer. If you can grow through it, you will be stronger, and more able to face the next challenge life has in store.
2006-07-24 16:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by LooneyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their will always be people out there that will make you upset. Just leave them alone. This is best for you all the way around. Revenge is for haters and you can not let your heart be filled with revenge, for in the long run it will only hurt you.
2006-07-24 16:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not revenge. Just let the time takes it place and that person will be sorry for what he has done to you. God is watching. Revengefull feelings can only make your own body sick. Others will praise you for being so gentle even though you are so hurt and you are so forgiving even though you are provoked to the outmost. So why revenge and others will make nasty comments on you. Good praises are always soothing to hear and condemns are nasty to our ears.
2006-07-24 16:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is only sweet for a short time. The best thing you can do is reach out to that person and squash them like a bug.
2006-07-24 16:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, revenge isn't in my vocabulary. The best way to deal with someone who has wronged you is to totally ignore it and show them that they have no effect on you and that they are so inconsequentual, that they aren't even worth the effort of revenge.
2006-07-24 16:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help to know your motivation for wanting revenge, or if it's even worth it? Ask yourself what I'm asking you. Or reflect on the fact that you're on the internet asking for cyber accomplices in a plot for revenge on someone they don't even know.
2006-07-24 16:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Love Doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen the strangest thing about seeking revenge it comes back and bite you in the butt harder and much worse my advice leave it be let bygone be bygone and guess what the person wont be expecting you to let it be, be the bigger man or woman with grande cahonnes and forgive them
2006-07-24 16:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing you can do is take the 'high road' and forget about planning something revengeful. Let me tell you, it's not worth it.
2006-07-24 16:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋