Im a guy and 25 years old. I dont care much about sex. I have no fantasies. I think my girlfriend gets upset with me. She will always try to make out with me and grab me. I push her away and she gets frusterated. Am I normal?
2006-07-24 16:28:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes guys just don't care that much. My boyfriend and I have had slumps before. its not a big deal. It sounds like you are bored with your current sex life, so you have no motivation to do it. Honestly, try drinking before hand...like going out and having dinner and drinks. Then when you come home, you can be more experimental with out being shy about it.
2006-07-24 16:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by itsasecret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be different from the norm, but you are not weird or abnormal. Expectations are that you must have an extremely active sex drive. But sex drives differ from individual to individual. You are not necessarily asexual (You do have a girl friend) but simply have a lower sex drive that what many people consider the norm.
Having a understanding girl friend with whom you are more compatible is probably more sensible than treating this as a disease. Your choice.
2006-07-24 16:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a low sex drive. In a man your age this is unusual. There are any number of questions that need asking before you can make any sensible decisions about how you wish to deal with this problem and this is not the place to ask them. If you are concerned enough about this to ask this question, I suggest you seek appropriate advice from a professional. B
2006-07-24 16:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah for you..Is there something that has happened to you in the past? Are you afraid of getting your girl pregnant? The mind controls the body..but hey some people like sex more then others.
2006-07-24 16:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by Heather b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what to say to ya bud, that sucks. You know what though, if you didnt like anything you may not have had a girlfriend. unless the whole companionship thing is what turns you on. Think about it
2006-07-24 16:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by niceguy4agze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. You don't have to be interested in sex just because your 25. When the time comes, it'll come.
2006-07-24 16:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it sounds very atypical and is not very normal. I would suggest that you try it out just to see if anything is there...maybe it's the girl ...you might just niot be into her..try a break and date some other girls to see if you develop other attractions.
2006-07-24 16:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Hidden*Halo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not entirely. You probably just want to wait till marriage, to have sex- like I do. But on the same token, you don't want to offend her or lose her. So try giving in to her desire some time, but pretend to resist, before giving in.
2006-07-24 16:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u just hav no sexual drive. It's called a sex counselor. Look into it if u want to save ur relationship.
2006-07-24 16:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr unknown first tell me y u have an attitude to b unknown ,b known plz better 4 u ,secondly want ur gf to walk away frm ur life.make her comfortable to live with u.i know i m straight forward but its true.don"t mind
2006-07-24 16:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋