I guess becuz I'm not working right now becuz I had surgery about 4 weeks ago I feel overwhelmed by my bills,I have about 1,200 I pay every month in bills and don't feel right asking fiancee for money,although he always say if you don't ask you must not need it.I don't want to be a burden I know he has his own bills and then he's paying everything by himself right now.Any suggestion?
2006-07-24 16:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First, if he says he doesn't mind, you might have to swallow your pride for awhile and ask just once. Then make sure you pay him back. Can I make a suggestion (please keep an open mind...) When I was struggling one time to pay bills I worked for a "Chat line" for men who pay to talk to women on the phone. You do not become rich off of it, and it is harder than you would suppose, but you can recover from your surgery and still make money if you feel free enough to do that sort of thing. (Make sure it is legal in your state as well...) You might try telephone solicitation, or something to make money. How about a loan from the bank? A yard sale for now? Asking around at churches and charities for a helping hand until you literally get back on your feet? Good luck! You can do it.
2006-07-24 16:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by crazymomma 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well figure it out. Do you have any other options? Are you expecting him to pay ALL of your bills? Does he realize how much they are? How much longer will you be off work? Will you feel the need to pay him back, or is it a gift? Lots of things to consider here.
2006-07-24 16:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the credit card or utility companies and see if you can work out a payment plan. This should ease it a bit. Tell your fiance you are doing this and if he has lots of extra money I'm sure he'll chip in.
2006-07-24 16:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should tell him your problem. If he can afford then may be you can get him to help on 1/2 the bill instead of all as he has his bills to handle too.
2006-07-24 16:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and figure out whats the most important stuff to be paid then suck it up and ask for the help. Dont ruin your credit and stuff trying to be proud. Im sure your fiance wont mind, he is supposed to be there for you. just make sure you both have an understanding as to how you are going to help eachother get through it all.
2006-07-24 16:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him anyway and ask him for the money say if you help me i will never ask you for money ever again
2006-07-24 16:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need the money so call anyway or find another way to get money.
2006-07-24 16:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by animal_lover_3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move in with your bf
2006-07-24 16:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consolidate your debt!
2006-07-24 16:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AFLAC
2006-07-24 16:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly,TX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋