okay is it okay after 2 weeks going out w/ a guy and give up your virginity to him?

Question

i did but after he dont want to wear a condom the next time what do i do...should i say no?

Answer 1

If he doesn't want to wear a condom, say no and if he does not respect your choice and get mad at you, kick him out of your life because he does not care too much about you, he just cares about his pleasure.

Answer 2

For the sex that has already happened: what's done is done.

For next time: It's your body, so you call the shots. No condom, no nookie in the future.

You should expect to be treated with basic respect... and that starts with you. If you don't respect yourself, why would he?

Answer 3

in the first place, him asking you to have sex with him is already a violation of the respect that he ought to be giving you as his girlfriend....what more when he refuses to wear a condom. that means that he is not responsible and he will not be responsible once you get accidentally pregnant.

you're only 2 weeks into your relationship and you carelessly gave up your virginity right away. that is very lame and unthinking and unsmart too. you dont even know this guy very much already and you dont know if his intentions with you are clean and pure. but based from your details, i say that his intentions of having you are nowhere near being clean and pure at all. all he wants from you is to steal your virginity and fulfill his own sexual pleasures. and he got it..that's right.....because you gave it away too easily.

i know its too late for me to say this but i was wishing that you could have waited until the RIGHT TIME came for you to give away that very precious thing. right now you may not understand or u may not realize that what you gave away was very important after all. you see, God has set apart a man meant for you. this man will love you not just for what you can give him but for the way you are.... no more and no less. this man will respect you--your individuality, your mind, and even your body. and he will not exploit you the way your current boyfriend does. and you know what, when you meet this man....i will assure you that you will 100% regret on why you havent saved your virginity for this one guy you are going to spend your whole life with. because you will love him so much more than you think you love your BF now, you will regret and hate yourself for why you gave up that virginity right away for some unworthy guy when you could have just saved it all for this RIGHT man. but you see, regret always happens in the end. we never know the value of a thing until its gone.

but really its not too late at all. just because you have lost your virginity doesnt mean that you have no chance to change. because you do..and you have to. dont allow this guy right now to alter your bright future and to ruin your life....HE IS NOT WORTH IT. one day he will just leave you and will be happy because he's already got what he wanted from you and you're left only with broken promises and regrets. i dont want this to happen to you.

just let him go and wait and pray for God to give you THE RIGHT man for you. He answers your prayers but He gives it only in His perfect timing..bcoz HE knows that if HE gives it to you prematurely, it will only destroy you as you are not yet ready for it. HE gives it when HE knows you're ready and HE alone knows when that time is.

so you just let go of that unworthy guy you're with right now..and learn to wait. because you are worth waiting for.

Answer 4

you horny little tramp.you have to make him wear a condom or no sex AT ALL.never mind getting pregnant.don't you know of all those sexually transmitted diseases that are out there.

Answer 5

yea you should say no becuz you will get pg,or infected with a disease.especially if you two didn't get tested,from the begining.

Answer 6

Nope, you're a slut. S. L. U. T.

Sorry, I'm just being honest. :(

Answer 7

yeah say no