okay is it okay after 2 weeks going out w/ a guy and give up your virginity to him?

Question

i did but after he dont want to wear a condom the next time what do i do...should i say no?

Answer 1

DON"T DO IT - find someone who will appreciate you. Don't just "DO" everyone who offers put "it" in a warm hole. Until women act like valued property men are going to act like they are disposable items.

Answer 2

Uh, NO it's not ok after 2 weeks because you really don't know who the heck he is as a person, and judging by the fact that he doesn't want to wear a condom, I think it's safe to say he is an IDIOT. You shouldn't even be having s*x with this guy. But to fully answer your question, ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM WHEN YOU HAVE S*X WITH ANYONE. Do you want an STD? Didn't think so. You ready to settle down and have kids? Didn't think so. BE SMART.

Answer 3

I would say virginity wasn't a big issue to you. In two weeks you can hardly know a person, He can be the love or your life, but he also can end up being the greatest jerk on earth. If you are a teen, don't do it without condom, it's too risky, besides getting pregnant you can also get any STD (herpes, HIV, Warts, Hepatitis B).

I would also say that you can also establish a break on sex if you think you made a mistake the first time. Think, just because you did it the first time, doesn't mean you have to keep doing it. Think first, then Think again, then think again.

Answer 4

No, it's not okay and especially at your age, sexual relations is illegal. Worry about your homework or finding your first job or being a teenager yet. Develop quality friendships and get involved in a sport or some other activity you like. It's such a shame to waste your time on boys at this time in your life. Right now you are suppose to be figuring out who you are and what you want from life and focusing on school, not some creepy clueless guy. I mean this guy should not be pressuring you into anything that would potentially harm you if he cared about you and he obviously does not because you have only known him for two weeks. Talk to your mom or a trusted relative about this.

Answer 5

After two weeks you barely even know the person. It's not ok to sleep with someone after two weeks. If you are going to do it use condoms everytime unless you want a baby and an std.

Answer 6

It is if your truly inspired to do it. But I think 2 weeks is too soon. If you and he are both perfectly healthy, forget the condom. Base your decision on something else. Being you already had sex with him once, and might still ove him after it, say yes, unless you're not in the mood.

Answer 7

When you do it with someone is up to both of you. You should both be of age and know what could happen. No you should not do it if he won't wear a condom, believe me, if you get pregnant, guess what? He'll be gone. Say wear it or leave.

Answer 8

Hun, honestly, if you are going to sleep with every guy you've known for 2 weeks, you NEED to wear a condom, of you will end up with every STD known to man!!!

Dang girls, let's get some self respect and keep our pants on.

Answer 9

Losing the virginity so early was mistake #1. Don't make mistake #2 by no using condoms. In today's world too many things can happen that you don't want to. Please protect yourself first. His feelings need to come second.

Answer 10

Why did you do that? You can never get that back. Have some respect for yourself, and get to know someone, and then maybe you can realize you are worth waiting for the right guy. Don't waste these precious years throwing your life away for sex. Anyone can have sex, but why don't you be different and save yourself for someone who appreciates the person you are without a physical relationship. Try it, you may be glad you did.

Answer 11

You should have said no the first time. Say no to not having condoms.