I'm not a tough girl anymore and now people think they can pick on me. My friends who i havn't seen in a while only remember me as that. I want them to know me as someone else 2!
2006-07-24 16:11:42 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Valley Girl ♥ 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Been there, done that. Good luck. Its a hard mold to break out of. Even if you arent a bully anymore, you shouldnt let yourself be a pushover. Let people know that ust cause you're not a tough girl anymore you cold still keep them in line. As for your friends, just give them time to see the new you. If its really bothering you talk to them, and explain why you changed. If they are really your friends, they will understand.
2006-07-24 16:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cozzette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make yourself herd, you don't have to be meen you could just pull them up and seriously ask them why they pick on you and that by not responding to their negative remarks makes you so much better than them.
Or if you do want to be smart you could say something like (this coming from somenone who fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down.
2006-07-24 16:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow up and move on. I'd suggest that you hang out with people that are more mature and do not try to pick fights anymore.
2006-07-24 16:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself ..and if someone is picking on you dont just let them because you dont want to be "a tough girl" anymore ... stand up for yourself
2006-07-24 16:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to reject, and be cool, act what you really are and want to be, and revise your dressing and the way you speak, and is that the way you communicate with them make them think you're easily pick on you?
2006-07-24 16:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by charmingdealer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should just walk away. You need to get in touch of your friends to figer how to solve problems.
2006-07-24 16:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by camjamal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds simplistic, but my best advice is to turn the other cheek and walk away.
2006-07-24 16:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by delilahlookingforsampson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't know yourself well.
2006-07-24 16:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Coffee-Infused Insomniac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋