:Sigh: i mean.. puh leez. he was this HUGE disappointment for me. and gawdam. GAWDAMIT. i just. just dont want to believe it. i mean first of all. he was this possesive, overly jealous, nerdy, bipolar @$$hole that only cared bout how he felt. and never considered that i might be reacting to how hes acting. and then my friend who is one of his close friends. a;skfja;skfja! i dont want her to fall in that dumb trap. and.. the worse thing is. i cant stand that someone actually likes him. ... is that normal..
2006-07-24 16:10:35 · 9 answers · asked by strictly_maggie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean. i rele dont like him. but i think i may be jealous. but i just cant believe that someone could like someone like HIM. its like i hate his very guts.
2006-07-24 16:17:09 · update #1
No, it's not normal.
2006-07-24 16:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, I know that you've sait this guy was and @$$hole..but you seem a bit jealous. That's probably why you "can't stand that someone actually likes him." It is a normal feeling. You'll get over it as more time passes and it probably just seems like a big deal because your friend is the one that he likes. There's really nothing you can do about your friend liking him. Sorry..but that's just the way it goes. You can try to tell her how insensitive he is and how you think she could do better, but then again, she may not like hearing that. Hang in there! Good luck!
2006-07-24 16:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually think it's quite normal. I think the big problem is with the friend. What kind of so-called friend makes moves on their friend's ex. That's nasty on so many levels. The jealousy thing is just a normal human reaction.
The choice you have is how do you react to these feelings and this situation.
2006-07-24 16:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely normal.
All you can do is warn her that she is in for a pretty big disappointment
and then stand buy to help her pick up the pieces afterwards.
Yes, you could feel jealous of the two of them, but ultimately you know
better - he's a schmo and your friend doesn't deserve it, right?
2006-07-24 16:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still haven't let go. He is an ex and you can't protect your friend by not letting her experience things by herself. You can't stop the natural process of life. However, you do need to worry about yourself and he is an ex! So don't of the past and put him behind you. All ex are either dumbass, just friends, etc....but if you worry about him with some other chick still then you never let go when you dumped him.
2006-07-24 16:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are really over him if you are getting that upset because your friend likes him.
If he isn't anything to you, why would you care? Let her find out for herself what kind of guy he is. She won't listen to you anyway. We see girls falling for loser bad guys all the time -- even when they've seen their friends go through stuff with him -- so let the chips fall. Just don't ask for any details.
2006-07-24 16:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your EX, so it is none of your business if they hook up or not. She can like whomever she chooses. Are you jealous, maybe you want him back? Why else would you care? Definitely not normal!!
2006-07-24 16:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't tried talking to her about it,do that.But if you have,let her find out on her own.
2006-07-24 16:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him all about him so they wont like him!
2006-07-24 16:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Twirl Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋