Guys: Ever see a lovely woman with a dorky looking boyfriend, and think WHY?!?

Question

Girls: WHY?!

craig s I'm curious! tell me more...

Thanks for your answers. Hey, Don't shoot the messenger! It's just a question about something I've observed. I know how to treat a lady (and I'm kinda cute too!)

Answer 1

Yes, there are plenty of attractive women with physically unattractive men.

The question is: do you ever see an attractive man with a plain woman? Nope? I wonder why...........?

Perhaps women think about things more deeply whereas men prefer to think with something else.

Answer 2

From experience...I've dated a lot of men that are drop dead georgous but they ALWAYS turned out to be the biggest jerks. For some reason they think since they are soooo good looking they can do and say whatever thinking that I wasn't going anywhere. Well they thought wrong. Then one day I met this really dorky, fresh of the boat looking guy. He was so dorky but he was really nice. the more we talked and hung out the more we had in common. he was the only one that never disrespected me as a woman and as a friend. Never tried to get fresh or anything. Treated me so sweet and special that he won my heart. and now...that dorky fresh off the boat looking guy is my husband. and I don't regret it one bit...in fact I am soooo glad I never put up with the other guys JUST cause they were drop dead georgous. So if your dorky looking than just keep treating woman like they deserve...If your drop dead georgous/....than learn how to treat a woman with love and respect and yu won't have to see that beautiful girl with the dorky guy :-)

Answer 3

I am not a guy, but I can say that alot of times the reason why is that a dorky or not so attractive guy knows that he has to treat you well, and many women don't figure this out until they have dated too many pretty boys. Look at Beyonc'e and Jay Z or Janet Jackson and Jermaine Dupree. Both of these men are too uguly for these women. Janet finally learned though and she is finally in a good relationship.

Answer 4

usually because the "dorks" as you so kindly put it have more personality that a whole bus load of "good looking guys". The good looking guys are usually too concerned with their looks, clothes, hair etc, and that is such a turn off, vanity is such an ugly character flaw. "Dorky" guys are usually more kind and normal, and have time to discuss a wealth of subjects, rather than the latest fashions or shallow trivia like that.

Answer 5

Yeah all the time ! And as a response to all the women saying "Oh looks aren't important its intellect and humour that's important" Who would you girl's rather date ?

A) Stephen Hawking - for his intellect

B) Brad Pitt - for his looks

C) The world's ugliest comic - for his humour

I think all us "guys" know the real answer, even if the girls don't admit it !

Answer 6

yeah i have seen some of those but to tell you the truth looks really aren't THAT important to us girls when it comes to dating...it's more on how the guy acts. We would choose a dork who truly cares about us over a drop dead magazine model guy who treats us like a booty call any day!!!

Answer 7

Ooh, that dork would be me...

The key? Be intelligent, funny, charming, confident, honest, and treat her like she's the best thing that ever happened to you, which she may well be if she is as lovely a girlfriend as a she is a looker.

Answer 8

i did that. lol i guess guys (all the dorky guys, and few jocks) think im pretty, and i went out with a dorky guy who i thought was great. unfortuantely...he treated my like the jocks treat any of their gf's. like dirt. he was a jerk, and i hate him now 4 ever.


he tried to buy me over, and took advntage of my trust in him

Answer 9

bad boys treat women like crap -

nice guys lack excitement -

then there is me - not particularly good looking - just a nice down to earth guy that respects his gf and treats her good -

takes her out and keeps things fresh and exciting -

( helps if your a spontanious aries )

and we are getting enguaged in weeks time -

Answer 10

Why, because looks are not important, they are a bonus. I want a man who makes me laugh and actually cares about me, if you think he is dorky looking, I might think he is sexy as h*ll.