what should i say without hurting her feelings that i'm sometimes too tired to do it.
2006-07-24 15:58:16 · 36 answers · asked by captainofthedelta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm...i understand how you feel...coz i feel that too with my bf...sometimes he's too tired but still tries his best to make me happy...i just love him so much...but then, when he's tired and i want it, eventhough he tries...i just kiss him sweetly and cuddle up to him...i would let him rest....but it doesn't mean i love him any less....i appreciate his effort to make me happy...so, i give him some respect in return...guess what? that drives him crazy and just love me to the max when he's in the mood..
i hope your gf realizes that....i think she will if your relationship is deeper than having sex.
anyway, if you can talk about almost anything...i think you should give it a try to speak up and tell her honestly...
2006-07-24 16:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just that. Tell her the truth. I would really love to have sex, but right now I am just too tired. Wake me up in the middle of the night or in the morning by rubbing my crotch. That is always the best way to wake up anyway.
2006-07-24 16:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by timntina_stchas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you should get away from her a bit more. Go out with some buddies on occasion. You two may be spending to much time together, and she's getting used to having sex way too often.
2006-07-24 16:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're complaining? OMG!
But, I guess, if you're looking for answers...
Just tell her. I tell my husband no all the time. lol.
She is going through a time in her life when she has the right mix of hormones that just plays up her libido. Go with the flow for now. It will pass, trust me. Especially if she were to have a baby.
Good luck. Just be honest. It's always the best way.
Heather
2006-07-24 16:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freak her out and tell her your really a woman that had a sex change. Just kidding. Ha. Ha. Ha.
Seriously, nothing works better than just telling her the truth, that it's just too much for you.
2006-07-24 16:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by samanthajane19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that while she is undoubtedly the sexiest woman alive, you need to take a raincheck. You'd be surprised, but sometimes a woman will try to have sex with you not only because she's in the mood, but because she thinks it will make you happy. Just level with her, it should be fine. :)
2006-07-24 16:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her outright that you're tired of having sex. If she's staying with you only for the sex, then I suggest dumping her. You want someone who loves you for who you are, not how good you do it.
2006-07-24 16:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by omgoddenownerengorgenzownzownorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you poor, poor baby! Imagine, a girlfriend who wants to get it on more than you do. Know what? Just tell her to bring a friend next time. Or two. Or - maybe you're just not man enough and she needs to expand her horizons. Or maybe you'll grow up and knock off posting lies here.
2006-07-24 16:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are one lucky dude, bro! other guys get their gfs finding excuses NOT to have sex with them and you are complaining? well, just be honest and let her know when you really ARE too tired for sex. but if you are too tired ALL the time, maybe YOU have a problem.
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2006-07-24 16:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by yaskme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW never in my life have a heard a guy say that i know usually women do about ther guy
sry
2006-07-24 16:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋