2006-07-24 15:42:39 · 19 answers · asked by sexygothbaby1983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok for instance, every guy I ever been with has cheated on me or hit me, and I've always been loving to them and kept giving them chances til I couldn't take anymore. I would do anything for anyone, and I get stepped on and hurt instead.
2006-07-24 15:56:56 · update #1
I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences. you have unfortunately been walked on. from your question i would have to say this is because guys think your a push over and are easy to take advantage of but, the good news is not all guys are like this.
i would suggest doing some soul searching finding what you what a toughening up a little. i wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-24 17:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by siddragoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you why. They watch MTV and want to immediate what they see on TV like trying to be players and treating women as second class citizens according to rappers. The new way of talking is why work on a relationship we'll just stop and get another relationship presuming they can find another one any where near or close to what they have walked away from..To many just want to be playboys or players in the end they end up feeling sorry for themselves and being alone.
2006-07-24 23:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well their has to be something about that personality that attracts you too them in the first place. My advice would be to not give second, 3rd, 4th, 5th chances. If they are abusive LEAVE, it obviously always gets worse. They won't stop because you put up with it. Try dating for awhile until you see their true colors. All will happen onto you in which you will allow.
2006-07-25 01:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by pha_qhaterz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like your in need of a paradigm shift
if you keep thinking all men are jerks and liars, then you are looking at the world through tinted glasses.
find a man who is not a liar and jerk (i am not either) then you will take off your tinted glasses and you will see the male sex in a new light
the above is a paradigm shift
2006-07-24 22:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by ace of spades 116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you haven't met many nice guys, have you? Some guys are jerks and liars, but some guys are truthful and nice. Just remember that and hope to meet more nice guys that care.
2006-07-24 22:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that attitude, you're going to keep attracting jerks and liars. You get what you expect to get.
2006-07-24 22:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by amivins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy is that way, you just seem to attract the ones who are. Good luck
2006-07-25 00:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. Breathe. The sun shall rise tomorrow, and everything will be okay.
2006-07-24 22:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls are the seed of the devel. i swear the worst pain u can have is pain a girl gives u
2006-07-24 22:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by let me know 345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are. There are many good men around.
2006-07-24 22:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋