My 3 months old relationship is on the verge of breaking up. We were a loving couple until recently I went to a one night trip with my ex classmates without her. I did invite her a couple of times but she didn't want to go coz she doesn't know my ex classmates. When I came back, I told her everything about the trip, and mentioned the girl (one of my ex classmates) whom I've had crush on before meeting my currrent girlfriend. She suddenly got emotional about it that I didn't tell her before I went to the trip and claimed that I was dishonest. If I am really dishonest, I wouldn't have told her at all. She is now doubting my love for her and my ability to be her boyfriend anymore. She wants to have a talk and I suspect it's for break-up. Any good idea for apology? I really love her and I want her to know it. I've never loved any other girl like I love her, and I never had a single thought of two-timing her. I don't even have feelings for my ex-crush anymore. Please help...please...
2006-07-24 15:38:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Blah blah blah....cry me a river. She's gotta go buddy. I'm sorry to tell you this but she is insecure and who has time for that!
2006-07-24 15:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you buddy.....I could see where she could be touchy about that. She feels like you are being dishonest somehow. SHe probably thinks if you would have told her she would have went. And no doubt if she has friends she told them and they told her to dump you. I dont think it is worth dumping you for. I would just tell her that You didnt mention it because you didnt feel like that was a important part of your life it was just a crush. She is the woman you are in Love with and you cant imagine living with out her. She was all you thought about before you went while you was gone and ever since you got back. If you thought it would mean so much to her you would have told her and in no way were you looking for any way to hurt her. Make your conversation about her and try to get it all said before she dumps you.
2006-07-24 15:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing to do is to explain to her that you were honest in telling her the truth that this girl was there. Remind her that you did ask her several times to go along with you. Also tell her that it was only a crush you had on this girl and nothing more ever became of it.
2006-07-24 15:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still love this ex? By your headline, it seems you might still have feelings for her, and your current girlfriend is picking up those vibes.
If you only want your current gf, then spill your whole feelings to her & let her know you would never ever cheat on her.
2006-07-24 15:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by dextersadventures 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of relationships. Tell her that she has nothing to worry about when it concerns the ex girlfriend. All your recent trip did was remind you of how far you've come and how lucky you are to have found her.
2006-07-24 15:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, sorry - that sounds suspicious to me... look for another reason why she might be wanting to break up with you and don't assume it is your fault
2006-07-24 15:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋