This man I am seeing takes me out places but lately our conversations have steered towards sex mostly. I have told him this bothers me that it is too soon to talk about it but it always goes back to this topic.
2006-07-24 15:25:56 · 37 answers · asked by Robin N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that's all he talks about, then that's all he wants. Talk about anything -- current events, TV shows, movies, etc. If he keeps going right back to sex, then either give in or give him up. Giving him up is the right answer. If you give in to him, then that's all he will ever want, or else he'll drop you after getting it from you.
2006-07-24 15:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question. If you told him you are uncomfortable about him bringing up sex, and he CONTINUES to...I would say from LOTS of experience, that he is not good for you. Not only is he DEFINITELY only interested in you for sex, he doesn't respect your opinions, and that is not at all good for a relationship. I know you don't know me, but I would say RUN! There is someone else out there for you who will be respectful. That is the ONLY thing that you should ever except from a man. It is not cute and amusing for long when a guy acts like he is so sexually charged up, because a real man knows the right time and place to talk like that.
2006-07-24 15:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy probably believes he is entitled to sexual favors because he's spent a little money on you.
He is selfish and is not truly interested in you, because if he was he would not continue to divert the conversation back to having sex.
Plus you should question why he is trying to get some from you so bad. Is he a nympho or has something extra to pass along like an STD?
Sounds like you should kick him to the curb, because if you give in to him, he'll treat you like a push over and never respect you.
Stand strong on your position. You deserve better. GIRL POWER!!!
2006-07-24 15:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the only way to know for certain if he is interested in you or in the sex is to sleep with him.
Okay, that's not true. Actually, the fact that he is into you is a good sign - it means he is attracted to you physically. And because he continues to bring up sex, he is likely hoping to expedite a trip to the bedroom. We can't conclude from this that he is ONLY interested in sex - only that he is horny.
He may, in fact, like you - but chances are he likes sex, too...and would particularly like it with you. The bottom line is, if his comments and suggestions rub you the wrong way or make you feel uncomfortable, it may be time to find someone a little more respectful. We are all sexual beings, but he doesn't have to treat you like that's all you are.
It sounds like you've voiced your opinion about his inappropriate conversation and he continues to do it. May not be a good fit...
2006-07-24 15:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by www.ayntk.blogspot.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a new date who is interested in getting to know you for the joy of just being with you to have good, clean fun. If this man you are currently seeing does not offer you a marriage proposal and a ring, and talks only about having sex, then that is exactly what he is interested in. Do not have sex with him. He will only use you for sex if you allow him to do that -even one time! If you already told him you are not interested in having sex at this time, and he keeps pressuring you, DROP HIM. Your feelings are more important than his sex drive.
2006-07-24 15:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you are together...do you talk about sex all the time?
Do you have sex every date? If you don't does he seem disapointed and distant from you? Does he always want to make out and touch you?
If so, then probably.
But If you can go out and have a good time, like going mini-putting or movies or what ever without any Induendo then hes prolly there for you.
2006-07-24 15:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him, hes only after one thing obviously. If you keep telling him u dont wish to discuss it or are not ready. Clearly thats what he wants. You need to find a guy that doesnt try to make the moves on you. And to get respect. Dont sleep with them for a long time. If they still hang around after a few months or more, then they are interested in you.
2006-07-24 15:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Simmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he is trying to or what we would say working on getting into your pants if the subject comes up and you shut him down but he keeps bringing it up this would mean he's trying to break you down. I would say if he licked and respected you he would stop so for one last time I would explain to him your position on this subject and that you'll let him know if and when the time comes to discuss taking the relationship to a sexual level.
Being the one only male here to be honest, he keeps bringing it up thinking if he keeps (Working at it) or trying to break you down you'll either give in or stop seeing him.
Good Luck ;-)
2006-07-25 01:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by grande alacrán 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been going out together. If it's one year or more, than it's time to discuss. Three to six months , than it's time to discuss it. One month or less, nope not even a discussion. If he still persists when you have repeatedly told him that it bothers you, time to move on. And since you have not jumped into bed with him, that in itself is telling you something.
2006-07-24 15:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's clearly wanting sex. You obviously told him that it bothers you, but he didn't do anything about it and your conversations still lead to sex. Get as far away from him as possible.
2006-07-24 15:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋