because I like to please...ok
2006-07-24 15:16:46 · 19 answers · asked by William E A 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it can make it hard to know if u are sincere or sucking up andthat may be a fine line
2006-07-24 15:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello... "lucy youse gots some xplining to do" One if your not happy then can't please anyone only get used. Two, helping others is very commendable up and until you please a woman to the point that you are no longer taking care of yourself.
You cant help anyone if you aren't being good to yourself first.
No one deserves everything they want.... if that were the case then how would children learn patience and to be be helpful but not where they become greedy and selfish.
Just depends on how much you give and is it appreciated. People need to feel the good feeling of a job well done and pride that they did it themselves. Thats all.
If you do too much or she relies on you too much...then thats just a little sick
2006-07-24 15:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a two part answer. 1, its not bad in the least to please your woman. but 2. if you get the wrong chick she could take you for everything you have and walk all over you. Because she knows that you are just a pleaser and would do anything for her. Hence you get instant doormat syndrome.
2006-07-24 19:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't a bad thing, but in 'everything' she wants may be a challenge for any man.
2006-07-24 15:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally speaking and i hope this doesnt offend you... your afraid of being rejected by women so what happens now you become there slave just for them to accept you, but thats just my opinion if you ask me......Hope i didnt stepped on your foot brother.
Hope i get selected also as your best answer!!!
2006-07-24 15:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by ChanteC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the luckiest girl in the world. But make sure you're getting your happiness from her as well.
2006-07-24 15:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she reciprocates or she's just using you, if that's OK with you, so be it.
2006-07-24 15:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by yacheckoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...cause if its a gf...then shes getting wad she wants from u...u have to give a little at a time...to keep her wanting to come back
2006-07-24 15:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by chevy_man301 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I am a pleaser myself;)
2006-07-24 15:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course no... that's not bad. Do you really want to please her in everything she want? wow... how lucky is your girlfriend.
2006-07-24 15:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋