how do i decide if i like my b/f or not?i mean i did like him when he asked me out..but i think thats only couse i found out he liked me first....now i see other guys and imagine what it would be like to go out with them and i say to myself..oh ya i have a b/f. but then other times i say i do like it cuz i miss him sometimes...but i don't know!!!!
2006-07-24 14:55:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and what about if i do break up with him and like i descide it was a mistake and i want him back??
2006-07-24 15:11:38 · update #1
Listen to your instincts, you need not decide on whether you like him or not just have fun in his company, if you like other guys there is no harm having friends etc. What exactly do you want in a relationship is what you need to think about. When your young there will be lots of people you will like and imagine being with, it's part of growing up, it aint easy and you will change your mind over and over again because you really do not know what you want. in time as you get older you will figure out what you need and want in order to be happy etc but you may have to experience some yukky stuff and have your heart broken a few times while you figure this stuff out. Maybe you can be single and just have fun without being committed, then you are free to do as you please with whom ever, just be careful though and be aware of your behaviour so you do not get a bad reputation etc. be true to yourself and honest with others and try not to hurt other peoples feelings on purpose and be aware that if they get hurt they are responsible not you. We are not responsible for other people feelings but we are responsible for our behaviour that may cause other people to get hurt. Live and learn and enjoy your youth x o
2006-07-24 15:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by clarissa l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had a bf for over a year now, and honestly, I love him very much. However, this does not mean I haven't thought about what it would be like to have another man. I usually reassure myself by talking to him and seeing him, and then I see how great I have it. What you need to do is see him, and if you can go the whole time without thinking about other men, then you know you have something. If not, it might be best to think of all the good things about him, and compare them to the things you don't like. It's hard, I know, but try to keep in mind how nice it felt when he asked you out. Good luck- A.E.
2006-07-24 15:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by A.E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a constant with you then maybe it's time to move on and dissolve this relationship. It's not like you have an obligation here and have to stick with it forever. Maybe it's time for new romance? Who knows! Think about it and take the next step if the opportunity presents itself! Don't stay in something that's just going to make you miserable!
Is it possible to have a heart to heart with him? It might be that he is thinking the same way too? Go for it! Your complete happiness is at stake ! Good luck!
2006-07-24 15:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you? Second honey every person is beautiful and they deserve to be happy and remeber don't ever settle If you are not sure he is the one that you want then move on. Life is too short to waste your time on an IF...
2006-07-24 15:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Just Another Mommy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're riding the infatuation roller coaster right now. That's okay though, because this person is only your boyfriend. Don't make any further commitments with him if you are still on the fence with your feelings about him.
2006-07-24 14:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by G D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young, which no offense it sounds like you are, then you need to be out dating other people, it's a perfect time to experiment and see what kind of people you like, you are too young to be tied down to one person, tell your bf that you still want to date him but think you guys she date other people too, he might go for it.
2006-07-24 15:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to make any decisions right now. Just enjoy the friends you have, both male and female. There's plenty of time to have a 'steady boyfriend'.
The more friends you have....the more fun you'll have!
2006-07-24 14:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im actually having a similar problem. but i have decided that i do like my bf. break up with him and if you find yourself missin him within an hour or so, then you do like him and should stay. girls are just like guys, always checking ppl out. i dont see any problem with that unless you go out and cheat on your bf.
2006-07-24 15:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by rrineeed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener on the other side. After you get there, you will realize that what you had is a whole lot better that you loss.
2006-07-24 14:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably young anyway. i think the excitement of the challenge to get the guy is the fun part, and then once we have them, then the fun-ness goes away.
2006-07-24 14:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jeanine G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋