2006-07-24 14:50:03 · 17 answers · asked by Fluffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up and start dating others.
Why continue wasting your time with someone you know that will not marry you.
2006-07-24 14:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? How long do u spend time with him??? I'm 23 years old will b 24 soon and my bf is 24 will b 25 next month. We live together a year already...I want to marry with him but he isn't ready, want to travel like freedom...I think man and woman r different...Woman want to marry with her love and have family but man want to freedom until he really ready.
We'r youngs. Sometimes I think I shouldn't knew him early...I should know him when he ar 29/ when he ready to have wife!!!
2006-07-24 22:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by nonglnalak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the reasons he gives for not wanting to marry you? I don't think I could continue to be in a relationship where the other person saw no possibility for a future together. But then again it depends on the situation. Not every relationship is meant to everlasting.
2006-07-24 21:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time, and don`t press the matter. He probablly is freaked out by the idea. A lot of guys are. Just try to remind him of how much he loves you. Spend a lot of time with him, it doesn`t have to be dates at nice restaurants or anything, but just having fun. Everyone is a little bit overwhelmed at the idea of marriage, but that definately doesn`t mean that he doesn`t love you.
2006-07-24 21:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you want someone that wants you just as much? Why settle for less when you can settle for more especially for something such as marriage. It's a lifetime commitment. For something that long term, don't you think it's logical to want someone that has the same desire to be with you forever as you feel?
I have learnt that love itself is not enough to sustain happiness in a relationship. There has to be much more than that such as compatibility, responsibility, respect, etc.
Sorry I couldn't give you any good advice. Hope someone else does.
2006-07-24 21:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amma's Child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new man to love that will marry you
2006-07-24 21:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him until he does or leave him. But why leave him? Do you want to get married just for the sake of being married? Or do you want to get married just to him? Check your heart.
2006-07-24 21:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince him to change his mind. My cousin in Seattle had such a bf. Then one day, when they were mountain climbing, he proposed. I don't know exactly what caused the change, but it happened.
2006-07-24 21:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another man.
2006-07-24 21:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things
stick with him hope he will change his mind
or leave him and find someone who will make you happy and marry you.
simple as that!
2006-07-24 22:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋